Bed friends

I've been made a proposal: to be bed-friends with a man I really like. I don't know how to feel. Should I be proud of myself?

The thing is, that's what I really wanted when I first met him. No kind of misunderstandings, no forelorn hopes. Just meet whenever I feel like to, or he whenever he feels like to. Like a "you want, I want, you jump, I jump". And freedom. No questions.

But, of course, as a woman, I want more than that. Being bed-friends means just only having intercourse? Will I be able to call him if I just want to talk?

Yes, right? Don't tell me I better ask him. I don't want to ask him anything again.

A bed friend was a boy friend, with whom love dissapeared, but friendship and physical attraction remained, right? Then, I can do anything except thinking about marriage.

Well, that doesn't sound bad. But I feel lost. Any words of comfort?

Hi

Well you have explained all in details.wat do you like more.I have had them if u wnt we can try.

Oh my god

It's a very difficult situation. The only good thing would be that he felt the same feelings, but if it isn't like that it's better for you to end this relationship e not to star another like that.

But if he feels exaclty as you maybe this could became the story of your life.

Try to talk to him and see how he reacts

Dont do it

Hi huni, i really dont think tht u shuld degrade urself.... i dont think u shuld b proud as u can do so much better thn that....
he isnt going to b there for u wen u need him most, he wont care if ur feelin low or just want to chat. being bed friends is literally just sex n thts it- nothing else. No fone calls, nothing.
physical attraction should not be the only thing tht decides this for u.
hope i have been of some help xxx

U r right

yeah, I finally decided I won't go on with that story. Too risk to get something I don't want. Sad... but true. It was me who initially proposed that kind of relation, because, although we talked a lot, I needed some reassurance, some certainty, something that turned him more available. Or... let's say, a basis, an excuse to meet more often, and it turned out that all our conversations, were just a thru step, an effort he made on his goal for sex. That was it.