Help!

In two words : happily married with a small child,very happy in my relationship with my hubby & would never ever think of splitting up but...Started a new job and "bam" a new man *an office hottie* on the horizon.We are very attracted to each other and we are good friends but we obviously want much more.He's a great person who thinks about me before his own needs.He said to me that he would never ruin my life by getting too close and probably making a huge mistake.I just can't help it i feel so strongly about him plus i feel the same towards my hubby.I don't know what to do i feel like i'm falling for him though i'd never cheat on my husband,NEVER!!!Can someone who's been in the same position give an advice,please.I hate having secrets from my hubby but i'd rather not even mention Mr X to him.HELP!!! xxxx

Don't

PLEASE stay away from him if you love your husband and child why risk loosing them. My partner cheated on me and i've been trying for a year to get over it and I can't, so i've now decided to end it. Its not only our lives that have been destroyed because of him but his son and my daughters lives are going to be greatly affected as well. Good Luck yummymummy please do the right thing x

Is he all he's cracked up to be?

Hmm, that is a difficult situation to be in.

Well, if you say that you are happy with your husband, and feel the same for him, then I would say just stick with your husband. You say you have a small child, and I don't think you would forgive yourself if you gave up the childs real father for another man, especially if you still love him.

I think you should give it some time. You may find that your attraction to this man slowly vanishes. You don't want to make any rash decisions, leave your husband, and realise afterwards that this Mr X wasn't really all he was cracked up to be.

Thanks

Thanks for your advice.I'll never make something like selfishly ruin my childs life by leaving my husband!!! That's for sure,but as you said the attraction might vanish though the more I see him/speak to him the more it grows (( He's great though very respectful towards me & my family he even never tried to kiss me and said he'd love to but that will be stepping over the line and therefore breaking the friendship we have up (( I'm all over the place as he's holding back knowing i've got a family i'm on the other hand can't contain myself.x