I need some help, please

Hi Everyone,
I have a very embarrassing problem and I don't know what to do
It grows hair around my nipples, not too much but it is dark and gross. I usually get rid of it but a few times ago my b/f and I played smth with a friend of him and his g/f, accidentally my tshirt arisen and they saw me. It was so embarrassing! That friend has never liked me and I think he told the other guys about this incident. After a few days we went to the pool and almost all the time that guy and his g/f were looking at my breast but the worst is that my b/f had the same atitude like them. We didn't talk about this but when we make love he barely touches my boobs. I tried to speak to him about this but when I told him that I have this problem with my boobs he said that it is not true, I have no problem. I think it was too much for his ego what happened and he can't even think about it. That friend it is not very nice with me but my b/f seems not to notice that.
It was horrible for me what happened but I don't know how to talk to my b/f about it.
Is it so bad for a guy to happen smth like this?
Thanks in advance for your reply.

Maybe...

Hey Purple,

Well as a guy, I've never met such situation...how would I react if my gf had hair around her nipples ? I guess I'd feel kind of strange actually, but not a big deal either. Eventually I assume I'd feel more comfortable if she had them shaved...
Whatever your bf said it's ok, didn't he ? So...why bother that much ? Maybe you even can tell him to shave it for you, can be fun

Regarding Katie's answer, I agree with her about the friends...they don't seem really cool, are they worthing ?

Confused...

Those guys are my bf's friends not mine and he seems very closed to them. Every time when I've tried to say smth about them he was by their side. He is with me but I feel that emotionally he is more conected with them. That incident could be a reason for his behaviour or maybe there is smth else?
I usually take care of myself I pluck that hair and when I don't do it I don't let my bf sees me but it's just happened to have bad luck then.
Well I was wondering how would a guy react if a friend of him would see his gf's hairy nipples? Could this influence his feelings for her?

Thanks a lot!

Not really care

if the bf isn't really mature and considering the fact he seems quite close to his fellows I assume he'll care (just matter of ego and keeps his feet in "the group")

if the bf is mature, I assume he'll not really about.

Hi again

This is the big problem: he is not mature enough and I am not perfect. Maybe would be better for both of us to break up.

Thanks a lot for your answers!

And sorry for my English,it is not my native language.

Break up ?

come on, he did tell you he doesn't care, didn't he ? So, just move on about that. Do you think it's really worthing to break up because of such a reason ?? It's not to me to answer you but you should ask yourself the question

and about your english, no biggies it's not my native language either, I'm surely not going to judge you anyway neither will native speakers I think

Dnt worry

look if they r going 2 snigger at u over something like this, they're not worth knowing!!!!if ur b/f says theres no problem then believe him..he obviously likes u and it musn't bother him or he would say or maybe split up with u and he hasnt so if i was u i'd shave the hairs off then there wont be a problem and u'll feel better and enjoy ur relationship properly! i think we've all had the odd hair grow there, i have...and i just shaved them off! try it!!
loose the friends tho..they dnt sound nice....xxxxx