We moved in together then 2 weeks later he left!

Hi all,

I hope you can help me - Im just looking for a bit of support really!

Well we've had our problems in the past (he cheated on me) however, we seemed to sort everything out and after two years of being together, we both decided it would be good to get a house to rent. Anyway, we rented a beautiful little cottage (the lease in my name) and after two weeks of living there he said he didnt feel the same about me and didnt want a girlfriend or commitment so he moved back home with his mum and dad .... ive now been left with all this money to pay out monthly for rent and bills and im so so lonely. I dont have many friends and now he is texting me asking me to meet him at the weekend and calling me his friend etc.

I just dont know what to do. I dont want to get hurt again and I dont feel like Im ready to be friends with him yet (if ever) I dont know what to do to get over this. I feel so let down by him.

Pls help!

Jo
x x x

Advice

If i am being honest i think you should tell him were to go because he has already chated on ypou beofore now he has left you with all these bills doing wot he wants. You7 are better off without him i think you should nt meet him because you will be hurt even more and if he is thin king about friendship like that all of a sudden you really dont no wot he has been u to... i no u are hurting right now but you will hurt yourself even more with being friends with him right away. is there an yway you can move back to wee you used to live because i think all these bills and new house is only goiung to make this situation worse

lou

Hi jo

how are you feeling today? X

Hi jo

its always so much easier to answer other peoples problems-not your own ,because you can think with your head NOT your heart! i think that he's already had his 2nd chance with you- and he blew it,big time!! i've given 3rd,4th and 5th chances in the past(complete numpty!!)the more i gave the more that got taken! i think you need to take some time for yourself to at least recovery from this latest blow before deciding what to do next. X