He feels bad for his ex because she sleeps around.....!

i don't understand my boyfriend! his ex jessica used him. she told him how much she wantewd to be with him and was sleeping with his best friend. then later she would cry on the phone telling him that she loved him and that she wanted him to lose his virginity to her. finally he walked away and a few months later we met. i always tried to be nice to his ex, and all she did was talk about me behind my back about how fat and ugly i was ( im 5'4" and 125 pounds), she even told my boyfriend after we had already been dating for four months that the door was always open if we were having problems- mind u at the time she had a boyfriend. she always call him and texts him and she gets with a ton of guys. we recently my boyfriend and her have been hanging out more and he says its cuz he feels bad cuz she can't get in a serious relationship, i told him its her own fault and to stay out of it. he tells me to stop being jealous and that he loves me, but i know shes just trying to get in his pants because she hates me. Plus he defends her all the time saying shes really a nice girl, and i say ya a nice girl that will have sex with anyone at any time because shes a complete slut!

actual jessica quote she told my boyfriend when i left the room: "i just wanna try to stop having sex for one week. but its so hard ya know? i just love the feeling of a guy on top of me"- as she's molesting a sucker in her mouth!

Advice

This is wrong he shouldnt be defending her he should have moved on and focused on you...he should be spending time with you not his ex, friends and you it dosent work .... and as for her i think shes a sceaming little cow to be honest.If she finds it hard to have sex for a week wot sort of person is she and y the hell is your bf listening to all of this crap if i was you i think you should tell him that this is unaproprate for him to put her before you, tell him he should be spending time with you and would it be possible for him not t see her anymore. Now i no for a fact he will turn round and say you are jelous and nothing will happen between them but the only way you will no that if he dosent see her if he says no then u should say you will leave hm and i he lets you ;eave then thsats his loss. If hes not willing to stop seeing her then i dont think you can be in this realationship always feeling like this wen you can be on your own with no crap going on( this isnt easy to do but if he really cares for he will chose you) if not am sorry for you but wouldnt you be with a guy who cares about you and dpsent have his ex involved

Thanks so much

i really felt bad and was confused if i was just being jealous. but you reassured me that this is wrong! your a life saver!