I need advise.please help!!!

I am with my man for 22months. The first year of our relationship is not that bad. Come this year everything changed so suddenly. He is not seeing me that much. Sometimes it would take him 8-12weeks to see me. He said he is upset about it but he needed it for his work. Everything cost too much now and that he neede extra money to play the bills. But the thing is even talking to me is becoming lesser and lesser. He said things will change soon and he still needs me. He even told me he want me to be his wife in the future and that he misses me and thinks of me everyday. Everytime i ask him to see me he would stop talking to me. I have tried to confront him about this but he said i only thinks bad about him.

I am very confused now. Im hurting to much about what is happening. Please help me dicede.

Advice

i take it you have a long distance realationship. I can see how this is upsetting for you. but i relly do think he should be contacting you more no matter how far someone is away if they love someoen that much then nothing stop them from seeing them. But it might be difficult for him to get away from work becase there is only so many times your boss will let you off. i had a long distance realationship and it would not work out unless one of us moved, my bf decided tomove here and everything worked out. But i think you have to make a decision on weather to carry on this way or end it becase sometimes these kind of realationships dontwork. No matter wot a guy promises in the future for example marragie thats dosent matter it's your life now that matters.