Why do i keep running away frm men is there sumthing wrong wiv me ?

is there something wrong wiv me ?


hi there im 30 yrs old n never really hada relationship n all my life i get ask out like on a night out i get ask bck to the lads houses n i end up makin sum excuse n leaving n if they giv me they number arrangin to meet the nxt day i gnore they txts for a bit then ill txts them a few dys ltr n if i like a guy i might meet him in a club bt wnt thru the dy n keep pushing him away by makin excuses jt so i dnt ever hav to hav sex wiv them as i know tht will happen as my heart strt to race n i strt to become sweatin even if he ask n ill make sum excuse

y cant i b normal like other ppl

Dont think its you.

Hi . you sound like a very nice lady who has a problem with jumping into bed or putting yourself in any possition your uncomfortable with so when asked to accommadate them back to thier place you decide to go the other way and when they show you this kind of interest you get all sweaty and disorientated. You dont return phonecalls or texts until your ready either????? Does that really sound like a problem on your behalf NO this is thier problem by not showing you the time and respect you command so in that case carry on looking for that 1 guy you will know when im sure and leave the boys behind learning the basics . Your fine problem free and enjoying it. Goodluck

I agree

i agree that you shouldnt go back with them when you first meet them its only putting unnecesary pressure on your self. i dont think there is any need to think about sex at all any man whos got any respect will read the signals off you, and will know to make a move, if not just say no. just try and relax enjoy getting to know someone new rather than looking too deeply into it. try going for an evening meal for a date instead of meeting in a busy bar. hope you get on ok next time you meet someone xx