Torn between two :s

Hey everyone,
People may read this and think...omg!what is she stressing about?! she is only 16 and should forget about relationships and get a grip!But i reali am in doubt about what to do....
....I am in a relationship with a lad who used to be one of my best mates,and we have only been going out with each other for a month on and off...because he can be a ... sometimes!:@ which really gets on my nerves....he has been on holiday for three week now and i have been trying to call him and he has been ignoring my calls...so after the first week,i gave up calling him if he didnt want to speak to me.but in the second week,he gave me one bell on my phone and i rang him back...we got chatting andf he sed he was bored (so thats the reason he called me)i also said i was missing him.and he replied with "really?im not missing you" so i was quite shocked at what he said....so we left it at that really.he is back tomorrow and i duno what to do...because there is this other lad who likes me,he says he is in love with me and hates my bf because of the way he treats me...he says sweet things to me and says he would never do anything like that if he was with me....but i dont know what to do!! because i do have feeling for my bf...my mate told me its not love its lust..as i just like the closeness that we share..like the kissing and cuddling rather than his personality and how he treats me....please help!!

Your being used !

His using you, get rid of him NOW, your so young, remember theres "plenty more fish in the sea" and at your age you can afford to wait for the right one. Good luck x

Hi lisa

it sounds like the guy tht ure seeing doesnt like u all tht much as he wouldnt treat u the way he treating u n u deserve better he doesnt ring u which shows u he not thinking abt u n tlks to u like u dnt mean nothing to him i would cut my losses and give this other guy a chance as he seems to like u alot and i bet he treats u better than this guy. why dont u weigh up the prons and cons and thk abt it realisticaly and u never know ya bf now nmight come chasing aft you bt if i was u i was finish him n start seein this new lad as u deserve sumone who gona treat u better

hope this helps