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Have i made the right decision

i have been with this man for 23months already. the first year of relationship was good then all of sudden everything changes. He dont see me regulary anymore, nor call me or text me. Now no matter how i tried to get close to him i feel that the more he tries to keep his distant from me. I have tried enought to talk to him about it but i always get no response from him. For two years he has never brought me into his house nor met his family and friends. I know this is not normal but i carried on with the relationship cuz i love him so much. He promised a lot of things including marriage but i think that promise has gone over the window by now. Just today i texted him that i am giving up and that i am letting him go and i didnt get any reply from him. I really love him so much but i am not sure whether it is still right to stick to him and just wait for him to change the way he treats me. Pleast enlighten my mind. i am really confused and hurting now so much.

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"have i made the right decision"

have you thought that the reason you have never met his family is because he already has his very own family. the fact that after two years of being with him he is beginning to be distant should be a sign that he probably never wanted your relationship to get so serious. and you trying to talk to him will probably not change the situation because he wants out. i know it hurts but maybe you need to give up. ask yourself this question. How could i be with someone for two years and never meet their family? those should be very clear indicators.

If there's a will,there's a way

that's true gurl,if there's a will , there's a way, if somebody truly loves you he'll a find a way to get thru to you .based on your statements it's clearly stated that this man taking you for granted, i feel you simply because i've experience that as well and maybe even worst, our patience will dictates us up to where we we should give up. eventhough i loved my bf so much by that time, i gave him space and broke up with him, just after a month we get back together cuz he realized how he loved me so much.well, i do believe that if something is really meant for you,it'll always return back to you no matter what happens..
goodluck
gb

Alert!!!!!!!!!!!!

he kept distant from you....meaning he does not luv u anymore....don't be stupid...just leave him away and someone better outside...love is blind...
in the name of luv.....give and take.....i'm emphatic 2 u....

Love can blind you

Love blinds you to many things. It sounds like your love for him is preventing you from seeing how he's not treating you fairly. He may change... but what if he never does? If he can't even reply to you about the state of your relationship, you have to ask yourself whether he has your best interests at heart.



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