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Boyfriend wunt show that he loves me !

Iv Been With My Boyfriend For Over A Year Now And Are Relationship Is Really Strong But Theres Just One Thing That Bothers Me Slightly.
He Doesnt Show Me How Much He Really Loves Me The Way I Do With Him. Like He Cnt Be As What He Calls "Sloppy" 2wards Me Where I Can With Him. I Feel Im The 1 With The Stronger Feelings. And When I Mention It 2 Him That All I Want Is For Him 2 Show Me He Loves Me Abit More Often He Says I Cnt This Is Just Me I Cnt Be Like Sloppy n Lovey Dovey Sorta Fing And It Makes Me Feel Down Like Its My Fault He Doesnt Want 2 Be Like That. And I Try My Best 2 Be Perfect 4 Him Like Spoil Him Wen I Can, Do Everyfin I Can For Him Etc Etc n All I Ask 4 In Return Is A Little Love And Effection. Okay He Is Loving 2wards Me But Not As Much As He Could Be And Not As Much As I Am 2wards Him

Has Any1 Got Any Advice Or Could Help Me ?

Should I Just Accept It ?

Please Write Back

Thank You

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hi my name is amber, i also have a boyfriend that ive been seeing for two years. he like that too. i really cant tell you why there like that...but i wish my boyfriend would show me a little more effection too. i also do alot of thingsfor him..but i member talking to him once and he said that he dosent want me to do everything for him that it jus makes him lazy....something that works for me is if i stop doing things for him and i put my attintion on something else..that always makes him want me to give him attention...but wen i dont he comes to me...or get yourself looking sexy and pretty and act like you dont how he thinks you look...that will make him turn his head all day...i hope it works for you

Accept his is not you

hi hunny, niggling doubts? If you have been together this long , its right that about this time you start prodding & testing it. But this way makes you a nagger & men hate that! You probably have this image of perfect man/relationship in your head. Remember this..love your man for who he is, and be glad if this is the only thing bothering you. He cant respond like you, because he isnt you..in the same way as you are not so mad on a sports team or a car as he is. Stop prodding , enjoy it, and remember nothing is for ever..
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