Sex with a friend?

I'm a 17 year old girl and just about all of my friends are male. I've really started liking one of my closest friends and I would love to go a step further with him. I sleep at his house and at other peoples houses with him, and we are always holding hands and cuddling and falling asleep in eachothers arms, which is great and it makes me feel so special and so close to him, but at the same time that is quite a lot what he's like anyway. I really want to take it to the next level, and I have no issue with telling him that I like him because I trust him that much, but I just don't think that it's the right time. Is there anyway that I can just kind of push it in that direction without completely terrifying him? Any help or advice would be fantastically appreciated!

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Talk before you f*ck

before jumping in to bed with him, you should talk to him.

You say you cuddle. while cuddling with him, tell him you feel comfortable in his arms. see if he says anything. if he says, I know what you mean, I like this. Thats an opening, for a good convo. tell him, you think your getting feelings for him. If he just makes a sound or says nothing, I would drop the convo, before you ruin your friendship!


Resently, I had to tell a guy I have to stop hanging out with him, because I'm giong to end up with feelings, and he told me, that was probably best..... so in other words, he's not interested in a relationship!

If you don't care about your friendship....go

It is the risk if you sleep with a friend, you can loose his friendship.
Friendship before love, but after love, no friendship.
Think about that before doing anything.

Hey, my best friend liked me for ages, but i didnt feel the same way, then we started sleeping together, and eventually got together. We dont work at all, but im afraid that if i finish things il lose my best friend to its a tricky one but it works for some. My female best friend, got with a very close male friend and they are still together two years down the line.

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Go for it!!

I have been in the same kind of situation but the thing was my friend liked me for about two years and i still didnt give him a chance but i knew i had feelings for him but i stopped myself because we was friends. But then i realised that something must be there for us to feel this way and i'm with that person right now and its the best decision i have ever made. It sounds as if he knows you like him but he might be in the same boat as you and not want to spoil your friendship, its worth a go because you never know what the outcome will be and if you dont say out to him you will spend the rest of your life wondering what if?
Hope this helps you in some way x

Sex with a friend?"

just checking in to see how tings are going what ever ended up happening.

"sex with a friend

why don't you not say anything to him at all and let things just happen if they are going to happen sometimes when you change the state of a situation it doesn't always work out for the best, just let it be what it is.

"sex with a friend"

the last i posted i told you to just let things be and if things are supposed to happen they will. what have you decided to do have you decided to take the next step and let him know how you feel or are you going to just let things be the way they are. In the end you might just realize that you like the relationship the way it is with no strings attached.

Dont rush it

dont rush it and let him be the first to make that move he obviously knows you like him

My experience...

Hi
I am not really sure if this will be much help to you but I know where you are coming from.

I tried the "more than good friends thing" a few times and every single time it ended up wrecking the friendship (or maybe just all my friends were jerks lol).

However, you could try talking openly about it to your friend to see where he stands. If he is a true friend he will be honest with you and however he feels, either way, you will get to keep the frindship. On the other hand, if you progress further and things don't work out the friendship will become very weird and you will be awkward around one another.

You need to decied what is more important to you. Is being in a relationship with this guy, short or long term, really worth risking losing what you have as friends?

Don't rush into anything, think long and hard about it and then tell him how you feel if you are sure you want to progress the relationship.

I hope it works out for you whatever you decide. Good luck, xxx

Yup

your right i've made the same mistake lately n it was with my real real best friend....am sorry coz it may turn it into no more friendship beween us

I have been there

and i made the first move....now we live together with a beautiful child and are still so deeply in love,he was my best friend when we started sleeping together and that quickly turned into love....you never no.