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Where what you want!
tbh, you should just wear what you want, but i reckeon your the sort who would look really good in a skirt but not like your figure perhaps? just try wearing one for a special occasion then if you like it try it other days! though if i'm honest it's your decision of what you want to wear..  DON'T LET YOUR MAN RULE YOU!  xo
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Its a special occasion
its a formal party wear one show him you find him special enough to wear it for him , how would you feel if he didnt invite you or even took someone else
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Go for it girl
Try wearing a skirt!
The fashion for Opaque Tights at the moments is an absolute god send.
They make you feel less concious of your pins (and less naked) and i've notice a lot of girls even wearing them with really dressy skirts and dresses. They are that thick that it will almost be like wearing leggins under your skirt/dress. You could even try coloured opaques. (Try Primark or Sainsbury's 3 pack opaque 60 denier).
Dorothy Perkins dresses are always really nice, flattering and not too expensive. I am a real fan of the wrap over dress (always elegant and flattering).
Try it because you might actually like wearing them in the end.
I dont think your are being SELFISH by not wearing a skirt and if you really hate it then at least you have tried.
Good luck hun
Michelle
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You're so selfish
Guys aren't like women, they don't believe in words, they believe in actions only. Telling him how much you love him and stuff like that will have very little effect, being sexy for him is one of the best ways of showing your love for him, and if he's even telling you how to do that, just go for it. It's not like a skirt is that much of a sacrifice, he's not asking you to wear a corset or anything weird.
It's really no wonder how easily relationships collapse if people aren't even willing to do that much to make the other person happy.
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Dress for the occasion and location
First you dress for the occasion and location then you dress for yourself. The company I work for has a formal dinner and dance every year for Christmas. Dresses and evenining gowns for the women and suits for the men. If my husband arrived in jeans I would kill him.
Your boyfriends work went to a lot of trouble and expense to provide a special evening for all its staff and your boyfriend obviously wanted to show you off and impress his friends.
You should wear whatever you find most comfortable but you should also remember to occasionally indulge your boyfriend the way he indulges you. He will appreicate it even if you only wear a dress 4 time a year.
Good Luck.
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Might as well
Give it a whack, find some skirt or dress you like, or at least don't mind to much. And if the experience is too uncomfortable, tell him you won't do that again. Maybe compromise and buy some smart trousers for a future work do.
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wear what you feel comfortable in,
if you have been with him for three years he should respect that.
and if he is dominant that he wants you to, comprimise a little say, ok but only in the house.
x
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Wear it!!
try something different! For a change girl, otherwise he'll fed up with you and might find you unattractive surprise him one day,remember guys were more on what they can see,they easily get attracted with sexy stuffs and if you'll just stick with what were you used to, it might drive him to boredom and find a new one,aside from it can cause him to look for someone else more attractive and more tempting into his eyes. Our partners always wants to be proud with they're gf's,beside's once you go for a change he might be more intimidated from u..Go for a change!that's all i can say!
goodluck!
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Shorter the better i say 
if hes paying id take him up on the offer!! hehe , why not !you never know you might enjoy wearing them , and it might back fire on him and he might change his mind and he see,s you getting lots of other male attention lol xxx
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Should i wear skirts for my boyfriend"
you should wear what you are comfortable wearing and not let someone dictate what you wear, but if it is a special occasion would it hurt you to put a skirt on.
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He is a normal guy.
He seems to like his women to be feminine.I too dont like women in jeans and T-Shirts etc,theres just no attraction there at all.
Straight men love women to be feminine,dresses,lace/silk undies etc.Its what the whole attraction about 'opposite sex' is all about.
Lets be honest here would you fancy men in dresses?
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Well..
from looking at the title alone, i'd say no, because it sounds like he's forcing you to do something you don't want to and you and he should be comfortable with yourself, blah-dee-blah...
But, having read the rest, it sounds like it'd be nice just to dress up for him every once in a while. I don't like skirts, they look horrendous on my, but with tights and things it's not so bad. Plus, as someone else said, it can be sexy. Just take him out shopping and try to find something that both you and he like. Even my friend who has NEVER owned a skirt before bought one yesterday! Maybe you'll find something that suits you.
xx
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So wear it...
there's nothing wrong if you sometimes content him..find a solution, it's not a great problem...ask him something you'd want him to do.... just for you...
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Skirts / dress
I love dresses and skirts and have always loved being a girly girl, I have to wear jeans to work ( i work in a vets) and hate the look but with the job it's expected. For me dressing up is a joy but sounds like for you, it's not and that you would feel unconfitable if you did.
My advice is next time you are going out as a couple/ works do the weekend before go clothes shopping for a skirt/dress outfit that makes you feel sexy and confident try coast/monsoon/karen millen as these are classy looks that never go out of fashion, as you will have had time to pick an outfit that makes you feel good you will feel confident about wearing it.
Men also have the desire that when you are wearing a skirt they are hoping for stockings and suspenders underneath, but it's not allways practical but to drive you man wild with desire try a gloss pair of lace top hold ups wich is a happy in between and should make him powerless to your demands.
Try it once if it makes you feel unconfitable / unhappy then you have been togther this long he loves you for you and should except that you are happier not dressing up.
I hope you are brave enough to try a skirt/ dress you may be surprized at how sexy you feel and look in one.
good luck
x
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