Please help me im worried bout having a broken heart

ok where to start i bin seeing this bloke his 39 an im 22 i know there is a big age gap but i dont care, we only bin together for about a month but he made me really happy but over the last few days his bin texting alot an moving the phone so i cant see if im by him, last night i saw somw of a text this woman was asking if she could call him now an put bab on the end then he said he wanted a cup of tea so i went down to make it him when i come back up he was still on the phone talking to her in front of me, then when we went to sleep he was still texting her i got that up set i had to get up an go down stairs i was down there an hour before he came down an i knew he was awake he asked me whats wrong but i dont no how to tell him how i feel without him thinking im stupid if theres nothing going on, is not a very loving person an yesterday day time we had a lovely day playing about it was nice and i dont want to let that go please help me

Advise

hiya i just wanted to try and help you eith some advise i dont think you lover is telling th e 100% truth if there is texts with babe and them texts dont seem inocent all you got to think that you are alot younger so he should be proud to have a younger girl and if he is already cheating 1 month in to the relationship they aint worth it there is so many men out there you are 22 still young enjoy yuor lifexx

There's nothing wrong with asking

Your relationship is new and you still don't know much about each other yet.

He can't expect immediate trust if you're only jsut getting to know each other.

I once dated a guy who did exactly the same thing, so I asked him aboutit, because he was texting this girl all the time, even on our dates. He told me it was your average every day girl who has a crush on him and he hasn't got the heart to stop texting her.

When it ends with him, I find out the real reason it ended. She was his new girlfriend.

I'm not saying that this will be the case because it may well be that it's just a female friend, I'm just demonstrating that there's no harm in asking. Think about how you would feel if you were in his situation. Why would you be offended by asking who the guy you are texting is. You would surely understand his curiousity. x x x