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Is tht too much of a difference?! please read this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I recently met this guy in a club and liked him straight away. Hes 22 and sooo gorgeous. we went on a date the following and ended up sleeping together. i know it was wrong but i just couldnt resist and i wanted him to have a good time and like me. afterwards, he asked me out again but then he found out that im 16 (yeah i lied before, i look must look older than my age). he said he needed time to think about things as im so young. Then he invited me round to his and we had a drink and ended up sleeping together again. Hes gradually stopped textin now but i like him so much and cant stop thinking about him. it seems i like him more than he likes me but what do i do? shall i just tell him how i feel and see what he says?


PLEASE dont judge me any help would be really appreciated
xxx

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Sh*tttt...

Aww jeez, i really feel for you!
It does kinda sound like he thought it was a bit casual, thought it was fine to just go on a date and sleep with you etc. I'm sorry but it doesn't sound hugely like he was planning on anything serious and may still not be.
But yes, i think, some how, any way, you should let him know that you do like him. Don't tell him you love him, or that you want a serious relationship, but soemthing to show you don't want to lose contact.
Try not to sleep with him again until you know how he feels, because if you want more than he does you could end up pretty f*cked up.
I really REALLY hope things go ok for you, let us know
xxx

hey cheers for the advice i told him! he said i like you but cant see where its gonna go, i cant get into a relationship with u as i dont think it would work blah blah he said it would be nice to still speak but i really dont think i could bear that (if tht makes sense). so ive deleted him and his m8s off my facebook ( so i aint gazing at his pics all day lol!) and i delted his number from my phone.

i feel a bit ... but hey, i wont be getting into a sitation like that again so i guess it hasnt all been in vain .
xxxx

well what can i said sis;firt u shouldn't sleep with him at all, and my advide i think you can or should tell him how feel about him, than if he likes you he'll find that interesting if not forget about him
you'll find another guy peace

Yh

i realise i shouldnt have slept with him, but i thought that would b better than nuffin at all? if tht makes sense?
eeek am gonna just be brave and tell him
am such a wimp with declarations lol!
x



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