Could they be doing the same thing, or am i delusional for thinking so.

I have just met someone recently so everything is still kinda fresh... This weekend we were hanging out with a few of his friends, was a good laugh but then something got me wondering... His best friend has alot of girlfriends well about 5 and 1 so call 'serious relationship' first I thought it was all jokes untill he spoke to every girl in the same way with the same atitude making all of them feel special with so much of sincerity on the phone. ye... so as the night went on, it got me thinking about my bf's choice of a best friend, and if he was the same.... do friends have that influence on each other? are guys who are best friends the same? and if they all so chirpy about it like its perfectly normal for him to do it, in my opinion such acceptance makes me feel like then it would be ok for my bf to do it... Really not sure...

Hi

I Dont want to worry you or anything but one of my ex's had a best mate who was exactly the same. i shrugged it off thinking that I cant tar everyone with the same brush, but turns out i should have and that my BF was cheating!

x

Do u have any advice please

am 25

My partner broke the news to me 4 weeks ago that she was pregnant. Every since i have been on cloud nine. I cook her breakfast. Dinner and tea. I have a little jealousy problem. I did want to be reassured that she wanted me as i have been really hurt in the past.

But now she walked out on me last friday. We have only been together for 5 months and she is over 2 months pregnant. I did everything for her and wanted to make sure she didnt do too much and just rested.

She is now telling her friends that i tried to turn her against them and that she felt smothered and trapped. I never stopped her from doing anything. If she came and stopped at mine and i had a match the next day i would say dont take the mic and be out till 4 or something but that has now gone against me and she says id give her time limits. Also something as stupid as facebook. She would come round to my house and visit me then go on facebook for ages so i said if you want to come c me then come c me and go on facebook the nights u dont see me. Now that went against me and she says i wouldnt let her go on facebook.

The first thing she did on Friday was go on facebook and change her status to single and organice a reuniun with lads from holiday. I feel low

What do i do. she left me on friday and will not answer my phone calls my texts or anything. I dont know if she is getting rid of the baby or she is keeping it. my life feels as if it has been turned up side down. I never am like this but i cant sleep or eat. I am so confused. Does anyone have any advice for me please.

Your right to be corncerened but.....

Dnt think ur deluded, if I was in ur position id think the same but then again me and my best mate are totally opposites...I wouldnt do half the stuff she does. I dnt think you should judge your bf on his best mate.