i need help so badly!!!!!!!!

ok so i have a fiance we been together a year and i cant tell u in words jst how much i love him! i know im selfish and want to stop being this way as its putting a strain on our relationship but i do also try my best not to be jelous and i think im getting better altho lateley we have argues so much and its really starting to get me down!!!!!!! its little things that turn huge for no reason i love him and dont wnat to lose him what can i do to really help this?

we work and live together so time out is def needed but we also enjoy being together all the time this doesnt effect us but im thinking maybe its starting too??

any ideas at all? he is so perfect and i knwo he loves me dearly i jst want this to work!!!!!!!!!

I'm no expert but this what i think....

I've been with my husband for five years and I tend to get jealous at times and slightly clingy. We're women it's normal esp if your partner doesnt remind you frequently how special you are. Not sure exactly what your jealous of but if it's of female friends sit down and discuss this with your partner, let him know u feel insecure so that when his around females he makes comments (that you can hear!) about how special you are and how amazing u guys are together.

I'm sure spending so much time together is putting a strain on your relationship, do activities without him at least twice a week, distance makes the heart grow fonder! If he starts thinking you dnt trust him, his gna start distancing himself from you.

Take care!

The thing is

you don't really know how much you care for him.
Sit down, be sincere and write it down a list:
-Which thing would you give up for him?
Your job? Just imagine it's the last day of your life: you'd probably spend it wiht him and tell him all your true feelings about him. So, why not doing it at any other day of our ordinary lifes?
He's with u know, and u don't hace to risk it until it's too late. Just choose. Place yourself in a role where everything can happen, so you'll know how muc you're ready to give to make it work.

Thanks loads xxx

Thanks so much guys i really needed that!!!! i went swimming yest eve with my best m8 we had a gr8 chat and was nice to be away and chill!!!!! same time nxt week ive told her! xxxxxxxxxxxxx