My partner is 9 weeks pregnant and left me

I am 25

My partner broke the news to me 4 weeks ago that she was pregnant. Every since i have been on cloud nine. I cook her breakfast. Dinner and tea. I have a little jealousy problem. I did want to be reassured that she wanted me as i have been really hurt in the past.

But now she walked out on me last friday. We have only been together for 5 months and she is over 2 months pregnant. I did everything for her and wanted to make sure she didnt do too much and just rested.

She is now telling her friends that i tried to turn her against them and that she felt smothered and trapped. I never stopped her from doing anything. If she came and stopped at mine and i had a match the next day i would say dont take the mic and be out till 4 or something but that has now gone against me and she says id give her time limits. Also something as stupid as facebook. She would come round to my house and visit me then go on facebook for ages so i said if you want to come c me then come c me and go on facebook the nights u dont see me. Now that went against me and she says i wouldnt let her go on facebook.

The first thing she did on Friday was go on facebook and change her status to single and organice a reuniun with lads from holiday. I feel low

What do i do. she left me on friday and will not answer my phone calls my texts or anything. I dont know if she is getting rid of the baby or she is keeping it. my life feels as if it has been turned up side down. I never am like this but i cant sleep or eat. I am so confused. Does anyone have any advice for me please.

I'm sorry

hi there im sorry abt ya gf mayb u jt needto giv her a bit of time to herself b4 the baby comes she only young and her hormones will be all over the place, so jt give her time im sure she come around n she a lucky lass havin a lad like u that does everything for her it v hard to find a good decent nice lad

i wish u all the best of luck

tc hun mx

Don't worry.......

Your 25 so I am assuming that your partner is also rather young, you have to understand finding out that your pregnant can be rather daunting, it's the scariest feeling ever especially if it's unplanned.

I don't know your partner but I do know how I felt when I got pregnant, I was so scared and it took a bit of time for me to realise that creating a baby is the most amazing thing I could ever do. Your partner must be extremly stressed, confused and just ... scared! Her whole life has changed, her life is never gona be the same again. You just need to give her space and time, trust me she will turn to you and probably even apologise. Right now your an easy target, she's taking her frustrations out on you, when I got pregnant I couldn't stand my partner everything he said and did annoyed me. I would want to just throttle him, I had no control over my emotions or feelings. Don't think my partner understood that, you need to just be there for her. She will realise she's treated you badly and has been unfair to you especially when you have gone out your way to look after her and be there for her. Dnt ring her or text her anymore let her come to you. You'll frustrate her more if you dnt give her space.

I've got a 7month old daughter and i'm 25years old, bringing her up by myself is the hardest thing in the world. I dnt think anyone in their right mind would chose to that by choice, especially if the baby's father is willing to do anything for her and their baby. Dnt give up on her just be patient and give her a bit of time and space.

If she speaks to you tell her you realise that you have been smoothering her but you only did that coz you care and you feel the need to protect her and the baby.

If she decides to keep the baby but wants to seperate from you, just be there for your child that doesn't mean just financial support that means be there every step of the way, you live for the child not for urself.

Hope it works out for u guys.

Take care
Chocomania2

Thanks

Thankyou for getting back to me.

I am not texting her anymore i have really tried. She is keeping it i just wish she would talk to me as i am devestated. I just want to be a father to my kid and if she needs me then i am there for her. If she doesnt then i will be a great dad to the baby.

I hope she does realise and come back to me but she is that stuburn i cannot see it and it just upsets me. I hope she doesnt go and get with someonelse cos that would be evil.

I have sent one last text over the weekend saying that i am here for her and our baby and that she is always welcome at mine.

Thats harsh!!!

Hi Mate,

I'm sos sorr you got the ... end of the stick she obv doesn't want to be in a relationship and i hope for the babies sake she doesn't keep nit she sounds very selfish to me....but i cant help but think she just wanted a baby and so got u to get her regnant, now she has what she wants she no longer needs you i know alot of friends and girls who have done this and i jst hope she hasn't done it to you. Just tex her saying i juts want to know what your doing with our child keeping or not and leave it at that! let her know if she keeps it u will support her if not u wont be around for her. see how she will reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! guarantee you she will reply!!!!!!!!!

let me know if u want to chat jst pm me good luck chin up xxxx