Should i stay with him? advice very much appreciated please.

So here is the jist. Boyfriend and i together for almost 2 years now. He is 29 and i am 25. We each have our own flats and at the weekends he stays at mine or i at his. We have mutual friends and we do lots together in our groups.

We are good together but recently it has started to get a bit difficult at times. He said the other night that he does not think of "us" in his furture. He is happy now but when it comes to thinking of the future he never thinks of me. He said he does not want to lead me on, needing to know how i feel about it.

After two years we have not actually told each other we love each other, yet at times i do believe we do love each other. There is a lack of progression in the relationship. We are in the same place we were this time last year. I would like to at least plan a holdiay together but he seems reluctant. I would like to think that in a couple more years we would move in together but am i just fooling myslef???? After a good chat we said that we do not want to break up as we are happy in each others company. However, i cant help but wonder, are we are just prolonging the inevitable. If he does not think of me in his future after dating for two years, will he ever?

Advice/comments would be appreciated please.

Hi

I think that there's a time for everything, and you and only you must know if it's time to move on or not. I mean to move on and stay together and dream and plan your future. I think you should know what you want and let him know that as well.
Tell him that u lov him, if you lov him ...Tell him you are ready for another step in your relationship, if you want that...

Life is short, don't waste time, go and face this situation and be prepared to take take the consequences

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Should i stay with him? advice very much appreciated please."

Maybe he is comfortable in the relationship as it is and feels if you guys move to the next level like moving in it could affect the way things are right now. and believe me sometimes living with the person you are in a relationship with doesn't always work out the way you want it too. And if you haven't told each other after two years you don't love each other you have to wonder were your relationship is heading. and maybe you are prolonging the inevitable.

Its best to just be friends

it sounds like he has love for u but hes not in love with u

Hi

I can imagine if i was in your situation,it woud obviously be hard to walk away as 2 years with someone is a long time....but because he has said he doesnt see you in his future ,that says it all.
Any man than loves you ,would say they couldn see their future without you,so this relationship is really going no where.x

Argh men!

hunni if he said he doesnt think of you in his future that kind of says it all! stop wasting your time with him and find someone who wants the same things as you want! you can be happy in each others company but it doesnt sound like its enough for you! 2 years is quite a while . . he sounds like a waste of time. Go out and meet someone who deserves to be with you xx

Get rid!!!

get rid hun unless u wnat casual!!!!!! and thats all i have to say he is not worth the effort!!!!!

Not worth it!

It's not easy getting out of a relationship and starting over but u need to be with someone who cant imagine life without u not someone who sees himself waking up to someone else every morning. Im sure if u guys go ur seperate ways given time you will find you can have a healthy friendship.