Am i in love with this man?

I have had strong feelings for a man who I have a professional relationship with for nearly 3 years now. I can't seem to turn my feeling off for him.

He has said flirty things in the past, not being big headed here just other people have said that from what I have said he has said to me that I must be blind to not realise he is flirting

If I pass him in the car we wave to eachother and my heart skips a beat, when I have an appointment with him I get really nervous before seeing him but once I am with him we chat away and he makes me smile.

I also work with him occasionally, today I am working in the same building as him and I just know by seeing him my feelings will be in full force.

I am married, he is married, we both have children and there is just noway even if he did like me (which I bet he doesn't anyway) that he would risk his career for anything.

I just can't stop feeling like this, I love my family but since I met this man I can't stop thinking about him. How can I stop feeling this way?

Hi

If you go any further with this guy,you will open up a door you seriously wished you'd never opened

Thats free advice by the way,you can take it or leave it.

Am i in love with this man?"

I think you should'nt pursue this especially if you are both married, and have children maybe you should just leave it at what it is a innocent crush where you to flirt with each other but respect that each other is married and why risk anything if it could have negative affects on your jobs. and love i don't think so maybe just infatuation.

Am i in love with this man?""

how have things been going have you come to a conclusion about what you are going to do.

we have all had feelings like that at some point , but to be honest if your happy in your marrage dont go there,you have to think of other people you could damage.
also some men are flirty but it dont mean they like you , its a bit of fun to them or its the way they are.
you may be attracted to him in looks, but the oerson hidden could not be for you.
dont follow your heart, and some feelings make mistakes sometimes.follow your brain,
takecare