I lost my soulmate,and dont know where to go from here....

Hi ..id really just like some advice on a sort of casual relationship.
Basically i want to keep this short so people read it lol...so here goes.
I had my heart broken at the beginning of this year..my soulmate ,fiance and father of my two children died,very suddenly and well as you can imagine im still very down ,and miss him with all my heart.
Since my fiance passed away i have been very up and down..and half the time im not sure if im coming or going.
I have met a man i went to school with,but didnt know him very well as he is 2 yrs younger than me,i find him extremely attractive,he knows my position,and since he works away abroad alot,he has made it clear he wants a no strings sort of relationship...hes a commitment phobe,and obviously with how i am ,i could not be in a relationship...should i see this guy and take it as someone who could offer me a little fun and time with him...or am i being wrong in liking him,and wanting anything to do with a man.
I find it hard to know if im being wrong,and almost evil in what im doing,i want my fiance back so so bad,but i cant,and i just need someone to make me feel like a woman again,and a bit of excitement.
Please give me your opinions as i dont want to get hurt,or feel guilty anymore.
Thank you .xxx

Its not easy

Hi

Its very hard when u lose the one u love. I lost my love 18 months ago. You talked about crying for your soul mate. There are still days when I feel tears. Dont stop the tears, allow them too flow.

Dont feel guilty!!!

dont feel guilty babe your fiance would wnat u 2 b happy!!! im so sorry for your loss god i cannot imagine losing my soul mate!!! ure very strong u know that and high 5 to you go and have fun u deserve it u never know he may end up the man of your dreams again!!!! this doesnt mean ul ever forget your wonderful fiance but life does go on!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxx

"i lost my soulmate,and dont know where to go from here

well it's sounds as if you are ready to move on just a little and there is nothing wrong with wanting a little happiness and it's sounds like it can be something you can benefit from because the person is not looking for a relationship, just take it slow and don't feel guilty your fiance would have wanted you to find happiness.

Hi

Thank you both very much for replying...its so hard not to feel guilty and its the worse emotion ever,i miss my fiance so so bad it hurts,but this sounds bad when i say it...but if i have a guy that im seein sumtimes and texting etc,it kinda keeps my mind off what has happened,and stops me sitting around crying,which to be honest is all i wanna do alot of the time.xx