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Ive been sleeping with a guy for the last 6 months and i only see him at weekends when it suits him. He's good looking and everyone knows hes a player. Hes never had a girlfriend and does not seem to want one. Just seems to want to sleep with every woman that takes his fancy. Ive seen him with other women and he is heartless as he will be chatting them up snoggin them and stuff in front of me. Trouble is Ive fallen for him big time and i cant get him out of my head or stop being jealoous when i see him with other women even though i know hes just using them as well. Its really getting me down and he seems to have no feelings for anyone whatsover. Ive never met a bloke as bad as this. How can i get over it! I can't seem to give any other guy a chance before i only like this one! Help its driving me insane!


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Omg u cant b that naive

get it out ur mind he not feelin u ur jus sex to him u n da the other girls u c him wit is in da same boat da same shyt he says to u he probably sayin da same to them he not feelin u n u kno it ur tryin 2 make ur self believe ur wifey wen ur jus pussy 2 him n how can u like sum 1 who disrespect u by bringin girls around u if he really l;ike he woulda went up 2 u n try 2 explain wat does he do keep it movin wen he want sum he sweet 2 u get a clue ur jussass

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i think you should give up this guy and move on if you know he is only using you whats the sense but if you are okay with the fact that he is using you then go for it.

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get rid of him..make him jealous as well to check out what he's feeling towards you and if it fails and he continues to ignore tose stuff well you have to give up dear,he's not worth it for you,there's lot of fishes in the ocean, for sure there's a right guy for you just try to be open minded,what a waste of time for him..once you play with fire you should know how to get rid of it before it explode..

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you need to treat him the same way he is treating you ant tine you see him start chatting it up with some random guy. try not to reveal to much of your feeling s for him. try to put him off for awhile when he calls you for a shag tell him your busy or your going out with a friend of yours and see how he acts it's all about trying to see if he has even a little bit of feelings for you.

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tell him to ... off! play em mean keep em keen! trust me treat him like ... and watch him realise what ... he is

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I know...........i need to get a grip lol!

Hi

Im in a kinda similar situation to you....im seeing a guy ,only for about a month so far...before i even let him come over to mine the 1st time,he was honest said he wanted some fun and keep things simple...which i think is what i want...trouble is it hard not to let your feelings get involved,and already im liking this guy too much.
He is also very good looking,but as far as i know he is not a player he has had a 5 yr relationshp in the past,but as he works away most the time he made clear he wanted no commitment.
I did ask him what he would think if i was to sleep with sum 1 ..he said he wouldnt like it,but as he doesnt wanna commit then he cant tell me what to do so he would deal with it.
I see him also at weekends at the mo i think its purely a sexual thing between us...which i thought would be what i wanted,but now i find myself feeling like i want more than this.He has invited me to a house party with him on new yrs eve though with all his friends so who knows what he really thinks of me??
But at the end of the day u cant help who u fall for...and for sum reason bad guys always draw us in !!



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