... little help?

i have a little trust issue with boys.
i seem to alway pick the worng ones, and all men have ever brought in my life is pain.
ive had two bad experiences with older men taking my innocence
and now i have gone through a batch of decietful men. i always believe at the begining at a relationship that it is right and maybe this time i am not going to get hurt.
men always do though, no matter what, i try to be a good girlfriend and do as they ask, and keep them as happy as i possibly can, but im sick of being cheated on and tret like ...

do you think it could be something i am doing?

xxx

little help?"

the first approach to picking the right person for you is to love yourself and not be afraid to be alone for awhile in your post you said you do everything to be a good girl friend, and make the man as happy as you possibly can how about trying to make yourself happy first. You said you always seem to pick the wrong ones why do you let the guy pick you. sometimes the best thing we can do for ourselves is to be alone and explore things about us that we like and i don't mean physical attributes, and presents these things to world and when you feel good about yourself people tend to feed off that and you will attract more positive energy.


Do i think it's something your doing yes because you have had bad experiences with men you are easily fooled by a man if he shows interest and you are not looking for those genuine men who sometimes are just looking for friendship, and nothing sexual.

This is what i done...

Yeah, I know how you feel. I stopped trying to be 'perfect' girlfriend and just being what I thought I should my own contribution to the relationships should be. I stopped being such a pushover and never went into everything with an open mind, not expecting too much and it's worked! I've got a wonderful boyfriend who worships the ground I work on.

I hope this helps, good luck!

I am a guy

I am a 17 year old guy who's never had a relationship in real (so don't expect much) = P but I know what a guy expects. First off, NEVER be the perfect girlfriend, it just bores a guy. you need someone who has something in common with you so you have things to talk about comfortably, but also add a little bit of disagreement; a relationship works better when you two don't think like a pair of identical minds and there's somethin to joke debate over. Also, wait for a guy, don't think you like one who shows interest in you; any guy in this world can show false interest, it's just a matter of finding someone who actually IS interested. Observe other people's relationships if you can and see what makes them tick and what makes their's passionate and yet fun, rather than just sex, and then try to apply what makes them work to your relationships (if it makes you both comfortable - if not, don't attempt). If a guy calls you 'sexy', 'fit' or 'hot', don't take his offer, cos those words to most guys just mean 'I'd have sex with you, but I wouldn't keep you or be loyal'. A guy should call you beautiful or cute or nice lookin or whatever and if he notice you as a person, he often compliments what you're wearing, rather than just looking at what you're wearing. Also, if he's serious, he'll compliment your personality within a week or two of knowing you. Until that comoliment comes, it shows he ain't trustworthy for relationships. Also, don't go for a guy who constantly looks at you and yet shows no interest in your personality; I'm sure you know, but that just means he wants your body. And you two should BUILD a relationship, not make one; the longest lasting things in this world are those that take time and effortto create. Finally, to find a loyal guy, ask about his past relationships and find out how they ended before you even attempt looking at him in that sense....if they ended cos his girlfriend was 'a ... or whatever, he's definitely a jerk...ask for a full explanation; he should understand why and be willing to explain if you tell him you're insecure and serious about a long term relationship. Sorry if you knew half of that or it's too long or whatever = S you can ignore a lot of it if ya want ^^