Help anyone

i like girls but got married to a guy , i cant have sex with him...an if he tries i dont feel nothing , dt feel like kissing him at all...........i stoped sleeping with him for last 4 weeks..he does not know that i am into girls..plz help
how do i get out of this situation ???

too afraid to break up with him ..confuse

does any1 thinks that somehow i would enjoy sex with him

Confuse

thanks for reply but guys i cant tell him. i am a asian girl n i am scared to tell him

Reply

by 'I am asian', does that mean it was arranged? or that it's forbidden to be bi or lesbian or whatever? Because I don't understand why it should be that way; perhaps being hetrosexual is wrong in a weird part of the world somewhere unknown? = P what I'm sayin is that it's wrong to conform just because of society; the world lost it's tradition hundreds of years back, we have none left as humans. we evolve and so we feel more. You shouldn't be subjected just cos you were born in a certain place and nobody should try to make you 'fit in', because they're the pathetic ones. being individual is what we humans do best, despite what other people say, we're born with our own minds cos we need to learn to use them in our own way. basically, just tell him how ya feel, despite whatever it means.

"help anyone"

first of all you need to tell him that your a lesbian, or bi- sexual it is not fair to him to be in a marriage where his spouse does not desire him wouldn't you feel bad if you had a lesbian partner and she was keeping a secret from you and her secret was that she likes men and then stopped sleeping with you wouldn't you feel bad.

Tell him

obviously tell him the truth. but perhaps you are going through a phase about liking girls/doing it with girls. i have been through that phase ever though i did nothing about it. on the other hand, sleep with a girl to get it out of your system.