i really love K but I really don't know wheter he loves me or just playing with my feelings .

In fact, it is only me who geos to see him . He always seems happy and ask me anxiously when we are going to meet again . And sometimes, he wants to make love . But after that, he doesn't calls me at all, or make any effort to see me .

And anytime we make love, it is at a hotel . I ask him if he has a wife or a partner but he refuses to answer . I also refuse to show him my house because of that .

One thing which is also very painful is the way he sometimes humiliate me . One day, I went to see him and he asks me to wait for him so that we go to a hoteL . I refuse but later decide to wait . He was furious and said that he will slap me in front of his colleges .

One week ago, when I went to see him after one month, I ask him why he never called me . I was sick and needed him . He had no explanation . He really wanted sex but I said no, not near your workplace . He thern said call me in 2 days time . He was really cold at the phon, said that he was waiting for his dad call, said he can not see me and that he will call me later . The most annoying thing was that he asked if that was my number I was calling with as if he has not got it . I'm sad and decide to forget about him but it is not easy .

I first think that his college who also wanted to have me as a girlfriend at the same time with him was giving him bad ideas but I think I was wrong .

Please, what do I do ?

I think u should just forget he even exsisted. if he just wants ur sex he obviously doesnt see how nice of a girl u truly are even though i havent met u i still think that u sound like a nice girl. take this and other peoples advices cause they are right too. good luck ttyl

Forget him inmediately, I supposed you're very young because it's so obvious he only remember you when he wants someone for sex. He's going to treat you worse every time and when he finds someone else, bye. Don't let anybody to treat you that way, don't phone him, don't date him, don't talk to him even if he wants. Someone better is waiting for you.

hi,i am alex,a shanghainese,china.i read the message from internet.ur boyfriend is really rude to u,to humiliate,to furious,even to slap.so he just want sex,not want to love with you.u are kind girl.so it is my advise to get rid of him.life is short.if sth u want to say,mail to me.
e-mail;alex_690611@yahoo.com.c n