It hurts!

i was with a boy for a long time, and then he finished it with me over msn a few months before christmas. ive never been so hurt in my life, i didnt know what to do with myself, i just ran to my mum and cried in her arms and then spent the rest of the week hid in my bedroom crying.
its been almost 3 month now since we split, and i am now in another relationship, and im really enjoying it, but everytime i am on my own or have time to think nick (my ex) seems to come into my head, and i still cry now. i keep on crying but it doesnt help, it makes me feel worse. i cant get him out of my head i compare everything i do to him, and always wonder what he would think.
Id love to talk to him about it, but my boyfriend and him live near and i know it would get out. i dont know what to do...

all i know is i need this pain to stop, its killing me. i want to hate him but i cant!!

please write ladies or fellas, even if its just to say your in the same situation.. i need someone to talk to!!!

"it hurts! " reply

hi

i just wanted to say that i know exactly what your going through right now as my ex bf ended things with me over msn about 3 nearly 4 months ago, which hurts because he didnt have the guts to do so face to face or talk to me about any problems we may have had.
it does hurt at the time and will do for a while longer as i still feel hurt and upset about it all now and when i am on my own i do also stil think of him often.

all i really want to say is that it does get easier to move on although it may take a while.

hope i have helped in any way!!

i know it hurts now and it will for a little while. woman arent like men, who can go from one relationship to another and get over the other girl! i think it makes it worse in your situation as it was done over msn-what a jerk! and also perhaps he didnt give you a valid reason. it makes it easier if he were to give you a good reason and them prehaps you can move on and be happy! i assume you are very young. maybe you should concentrate on yourself and then think about having a relationship!