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Hallo desiree,
Mach mal langsam 
Ich denke, du hast Recht, wenn du vermutest, dass es sich bei deinem Verehrer um jemand handeln könnte, der einfach aufsteigen will und dem du als Person piepegal bist.
Ich an deiner Stelle würde meine Pläne durchziehen und ihn im Urlaub besuchen fahren um ihn näher kennen zu lernen.
Lass dich von charmanten Worten und Gesten nicht einwickeln und bleib wachsam.
Wer es ehrlich meint, der steht auch zu dir, egal, wie sehr er um dich kämpfen muss.
In diesem Sinne.... 
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Hiya
it's awryt no worries my dear,sometimes computer/loptop sux..LOL.
that's a good question sweety, you have no idea how i wish it's as easy as that to move and live in germany <btw he lives in stuttgart>so we'll be near with each other but you know there's some things in life that was never meant to happen no matter how you try it..It really breaks my heart that we never had the chance to continue what we have started tho' we both know we like each other but for some reason seems destiny isn't on our side and as time goes by w/o trying anything were both suffering about "what if " thoughts.Everything gone through dissapointment,regretion that i will carry on until i die there's something on him that i just couldn't explain neither him as well despite the fact that we both had relationships whilst apart from each other yet we still hang on with this stupid unexplainable sparks between us for the last 5 yrs and because of this i can't totaly move on cuz even if i'm on my current relationship he's still on my mind, too bad so sad..
Oh my goodness, seems i'm the one whose telling you now a sad story based on reality, i do hope somehow you'll get something to it cuz this might be the results in your sit'n depends on your decision my dear. I'm glad i can talk about this with someone who can understand and relate of what i've gone through, i just wanted to share related story, at this point of time both us who can only understand each other,i hope you won't suffer like what i've experience cuz it's really hard to carry on whilst i'm still alive in this earthball..I might not be able to give you the best answers of what is currently bothering on the top of your head tho at least somehow you might pick some points of view towards it.
You'll be the one who can only decide of what you think is right my dear cuz on the latter part you'll be accountable with your decisions in life.Fight for it if you have enough strength to face the consequences otherwise stick with what you have in mind..
by the way,if you don't mind me asking dear, what's stopping you to move in his country ? If he'd like to visit in your place that would be great tho' be ready for the consequences as well..
wish you the best my dear , hope you'll make a right decision that you wouldn't regret for the rest of your life..
i just want you to know that I appreciated our conversation so much 
talk soon!!
love
cindy
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Hiya
i sent you PM instead
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Guten tag
guten tag! wei geht es dir
hiya, i can somehow relate in your sit'n a long time ago tho it's vice versa he's a german guy and he's such a lovely and charming guy as well, however due to the fact that were in a long distance scenario it diddn't work at all cuz were both afraid of the consequences we might face once 1 of us take the risk if it's worthy or not,same like you we both feel that we like each other,anyway,your a girl and a girl has a strong instinct if the guy like's you or not but in my case i was able to make him confessed that he indeed like me so i think you'd rather confirm that important aspect with him before taking any further action otherwise it'll be totaly useless. Sad in my part we diddn't work out at all,we had communication for 5 yrs since we met ,1 yr text/phonecalls then just emails afterwards up to now and it's just doesn't work,i got bf now and he got gf as well so we just stay as a friend
oh well, hope you can relate somehow and will give you at least an idea thru other insights..tho still at the end of the day it depends on the both of you on how you are willing to work it out and how far the risk you can take....
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Hallo!
Vielen dank, mir gehts super soweit 
well at first thanks for the answer!
I think ur pretty right with what you say and i'm sorry, that it didn't work out between you and your german boyfriend... but i'm still a little confused  not unusual for me because i knever really know what i actually want!
But i think i can hardly make a judgement about what it is between us, because even if he calls me as often as he can and i'm calling him.
Maybe i should go back to the UK for a couple weeks just to try to figure out what
it is? I thought i already had enough time for this the last months but it's not that easy because everytime, i come to the UK, my dad always wants me to come to his company and work there for a while (by the way i'm a foreign correspondence clerk and half british but i've grown up in Germany and we have never spoken English at home after my father left us and he thinks his German still isn't good enough for comunicating with his german partners) ...
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but what if i'm just waisting my time? I mean i've always seen that hes been very difficult to me...very...british 
from spain
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