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Hi i'm a guy with a question...

I've come here because i'm intrigued by attraction and male/female psycology and social dynamics.

I've got a question for you girlies and i need completely honest answers to understand this concept more. I'm hoping the friendly people here can give me a hand.

Here we go.

I want you to imagine you're walking down a street (not too busy but you're in your city centre). Across the street is a man who you haven't noticed yet. He has spotted you and has become instantly sexually attracted. He plucks up his courage and approaches you with the possibility of retrieving contact information that may lead to you both meeting up again in the future.

How would you prefer him to express this interest:

A) He starts off indirect. Maybe asking you where the train station is. He'll probably get into some trivial conversation and then explain he is attracted to you and would like you're number.

B) He opens honestly and directly. He doesn't want to hide his intentions. He approaches and says something like "Hey, i've just noticed you from over there and i've got to tell you i find you incredibly attractive. What's your name?". He proceeds into maybe a minutes conversation then asks for your number.

C) He is COMPLETELY HONEST about his sexual desires and intentions. He walks up to you and says something like "Hey, i just saw you from over there and i'm going to be completely honest here. How would you feel about exchanging orgasms sometime?

How would you prefer him to express his interest and why?

Thank you and all replies appreciated.

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No, no, no.. less direct, please..

I don't like any of those ways to express his interests.
I prefer that a boy comes along and talk with me without any direct interest.. Do you know what I mean? Just talk and smile a bit.. Then, he could ask for my e-mail, but not for my telephone!

None of the above!!!

If a guy i did not know just approached me on the street, i would not be likely to give my number out even if he was really good looking and a real charmer. Because i would probably be in a rush or something and wouldn't want to be stopped for a chat with a random man!! This has actually happened to me a few times and i have not given my number either times, its just too werid and creepy for me. Plus how can he be properly attracted to you? He doesn't even know u and is only after u because of the way u look, which is never what i personally would be after. But i guess all women are different.

B)

B) for me as well. Gets straight to the point without being creepy.

C) is a bit too full on for someone you've just bumped into on the street, a bit creepy imo lol if some guy said that to me I'd tell him where to go no matter how good looking he was.

Certainly...

B) !



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