How to tell if a guy is really interested?

I really like a guy i work with....well he's in the same building and i've seen him outside smoking and always had a soft spot for him

the other day i was out at a concert and i noticed him, i've never had the guts to say hi - always thought he was goin out with the girl that he smokes with. but later on i was standing on my own and didnt realise he was a few rows in front of me.

he turned around and saw me and came over saying he saw me going to work and i always walked passed him - he said for me to say hi next time and gave me his name,told me to email him. but i'm not due in work for a couple of weeks.

a few songs later a forgot i hadnt given him my name so when he walked passed me again, i gave him my name and said about giving him my number - instead he gave me his. i texted him that night and he texted back. i found out that he's single and invited him out this saturday to a gig and he said he is going to go but he's bringing a friend (a guy)

i really like him but i dunno whether im just considered a mate to him or whether he maybe fancies me too....

can anyone help - is there any advice to tell me he likes me more than a friend??

thanks

"how to tell if a guy is really interested?"

If he is showing interest then he must be interested

Hmm

well again we've been out after work having a drink... he was definitely a lot more chatty this time and we do laugh about a lot of things

i said to him about me not being in during the week and jokingly saying what would he do seeing as i wouldnt be around to email him and he replied that he had other friends to email....

so i suppose thats the nail in the coffin...

Progress?

well a few days have passed

we email each other at work and yesterday we went to a couple of bars after work... he doesnt really flirt but my friend was with us said he did seem verys hy and very tired - moreso to do with our hours and him being out the night before

today though he came in late and said to me he was goin on a smoke break at after noon but i wasnt feeling to good so i emailed him back and said i was goin at round 11.30am. he didnt reply but when i went outside he was outside with others from his floor.... i walked passed as i dont know his other colleagues and headed to a shop, a few mins later he was there with colleagues gettin stuff too....

is it just coincedence?
i'm just looking into things maybe a bit too much but i dunno,i'm not good with guys

any advice?

Take it easy,

and first of all, take him off your mind.

Focus your interest on something else and he ll probably increases his actions to see you.

If he doesnt, then he is definately not interested.

To my knowledge no man is too shy to act when it comes to get involved with the girl hes in love with.

Good luck

How to tell if a guy is really interested?"

maybe just consider him as a mate first and see if any thing builds from you guys just being friends, you don;t want to rush something that can blossom on it's own if left to time.

I would think that

if he brings a mate along with him to the gig, you should also take a friend with you,

1) for your own security, as you dont know, what the two boys are up to.

2) for more fun.

You will find out gradually if that guy likes you or not.

All you can tell by this time that he is interested.

Today

well the gig happened today

he texted me to let me know when he'd be down

I showed up & he (plus mate) followed. I did invite others but it being valentines,etc - no one else showed.

It didnt really matter though as he told me he was only able to stay to 5pm, a mate of his was picking him up - he had stuff to do. he did tell me though that he'd be back the following week and would be up for having a drink,etc

I still really like him and am doing him some cds of bands he was enquiring about.
a male friend of mine told me not to look so interested but i dunno what i should do.
I see him and i do lust after him, he's a nice guy and into loads of stuff i am.... i could really see myself in a relationship with him but i know if i think about it more,it'll just not happen and i'll be disappointed.....

i've only been talkin to him for the past couple of days...i dont think it's right to ask him if he likes me,etc - neither of us really know each other that well

such a head melt argh!!

I know its awful not knowing,

where you stand.

But I would give you the same advice as your male friend did.

Don t do anything for him

You are a nice girl who can pick and choose among many blokes and you can well afford to wait.

Let HIM do things for YOU

....and if hes not getting into his pants in good time you better forget about him.

As the saying goes: "Other mums have nice sons too!"

I hope, things turn out right for you.

Thanks

thanks for the advice

I find it really hard now though not doing anything and just waiting