Fallen in love so quick....its scary !!!

Hi....well basically i met up with sum one i went to school with just before xmas,and it was a instant attraction...he always liked me...i always liked him..but neither of us ever knew this!We have been together 9 weeks now.
He is absolutley gorgeous,kind,caring...just wonderful...i get scared coz i know im in love with this man,but i feel i have so much baggage and worry he may not stick around.
My fiance died almost a year ago,and i have been left with 2 little boys...my fiance commit suicide,and i never imagined i could be so happy as i am,but i cant help my feelings.
I have told him i love him...i really do,he also wrote in his valentines card that he loves me,thinks im amazing etc,and completly spoilt me the whole of valentines weekend,hotel roses champayne 5 course meal,break in bed,never been treated so well.
We have both been hurt (his ex of 4 yrs cheated ) and still likes him which makes me a little insecure,but he assures me he has no feelings what so ever.He has met my boys,wants to spend time with them,everyday he calls and texts me the most loveliest things.But even after all he does and says,i still get this feeling that im gonna get hurt again...and it really does scare me.
Also some ppl are bein nasty and jealous,and trying to make me feel bad bcoz of my fiance.
I will always love my fiance ,but i have to move on and ive found someone who makes me happy.

Question is am i right to be so scared and am i wrong to be with sum 1 already??
Thanks .xx

Fallen in love so quick....its scary !!!"

goes with the river flows

"fallen in love so quick....its scary !!

what have you decided to do about being in love and being a scared to go for it.

a good'un

well first of all hunny, i feel for you, i really do. i understan d how you must be feeling, insecure and everything, but dont let anyone tell you different if u love this man and its going really well then stay with him cos hes making you happy. people will be thinking, just becos your fiance died and your with someone else already, it dont matter. you need someone right now and he seems the man for you. good on ya to get a catch like that!!! right now you need to be close to someone, and obviosuly just cos your with anuva man dont mean u dont still love your fiance. if it works, it works. just be happy and stay in love your fiance wouldnt want ya down in the dumps sitting at home crying bored on your own, he would want ya to live your life. x x x

"fallen in love so quick....its scary !!!"

of it feels right then it must be, don't be scared, god probably put him there for you,

Background check

Before I'd expose my children to a man I've known for 9 months I'd have a background check done. He could be a pedophile or child abuser. Don't let desparation cloud your judgment. If he clears the check, then go ahead. Good Luck.