Crossdressing

Hi
I'm looking for help and advice.

IKm a 37 year old guy who enjoys dressing and looking like a woman.

I have never shared this with anyone before.

I have a couple of female friends who I would love to share it with. I'm not sure what there
response would be or how they would react.

How do I go about explaining or should I even try? I would hate to lose their
friendship but I am getting more and mor desperate for someone to talk to
about my secret.

Any advie or help would be much appreciated,

Thanks,

Gemma

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Hey
the new Marian Keyes book is just about cross dressing too (this charming man)
it's so funny !!!

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sounds like an interesting book, maybe might answer some questions for you.

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Hey Gema this is my opignon about your problem of cross dressing.

Firstly, i dont see why you can not do what you fansy, everyone is free to do what ever they like. This include you as long as you cause no trouble to anyone. You are not the first peron to have that deisire.

Concerning ur femele friends, if they are really friends, they should understand, and maybe be support you because is something you really like and want. why not? c'onnnnnn let be honest !!!!!!!

So i think you should fine the best way to tell them, i dont no, but you will think about how and when to do it. Dont worry they will take it good, at least one of them, and for the one who dont want to understand, will realised and come back to you.

At the same time, people today have lots of different fantaisy to be honest ,but maybe will never share with their friends, you are different, go ahead and do what is good for you.

hope this help Gemma good luck .

Hi

Thanks for your response. I can't believe how kond and understanding people have been.

I know what you are saying makes great sense, just not sure I have the courage to
admit my secret to anyone however much I want to. I suppose the thought of what my
friends reaction may be and also how they will then be towards me is what stops me. I
suppose what I am looking for by asking the question is what a womans view is of people
like me. I am really surprised by how understanding people have been. I really am grateful
For you taking the time to respond and help me with your advice.
I have given this a lot of thought over a long time, do you think it would be a good idea to maybe
leave some of my clothes or make up around for a friend to find and then push the question
from them?

Thanks again for your help

Gemma x

Crossdressing

Hi Gemma,
Do you know what, I admire you for admitting you like to do this.
If it makes you feel good and is not harming anyone, then carry on honey!

I have gone through things in my life and still am (divorce, pending) and there is one thing I have learnt in life that its too easy to judge people.

I have done this in the past and have slowly learnt you can't always judge a book by its cover.

So what, if you enjoy dressing up in womans clothes.
Beleive me, there are worse things people like to do!

I say live and let live and enjoy your life to the max!

Lisa xx

Crossdressing

Hi Lisa
Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it.
I would love to have a friend like you!!!

Do you have any advice on how I could talk to my friends about it?

You're right, there are far worse things I could do and it doesn't harm anyone but most people still find it strange
as, if I'm honest, I do, I don't understand the desire myself.

I fell desperate to talk to someone about this and woeld appreciate any advice you may have.

Good luck with everything you have going on right now,

Gemma x

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I would also find it wierd if one of my male friends came and told me he liked to dress like a women I think I would feel a little uncomfortable thinking he might want to borrow some of my clothes. I can't help but ask and you are probably going to get alot of this are you gay.

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did you ever get to tell yor friends that you like to cross dress if so hoe did it go ?
did they treat you different? or was everything still the same? jsut wondering how you are doing.

Hi

Thanks for your responses.

I don't really understand it myself, I am not gay, I just know I like to wear womens
clothes and make up and have done from an early age. Apparently most guys
who enjoy this aren't gay but I can only speak for myself.

I just know that it would be really good to be able to share this with someone who
wouldn't judge and who I would be able to talk to about it. Maybe I'm being selfish
And should just accept I have to keep it a secret but it is dificult.

Thanks for both your responses, I appreciate your thoughts,
Gemma

Hi.......

Im really not too sure what to say....if one of my male friends said they enjoy cross dressing i would probably laugh it off,and find it a very awkward situtaion.
Are you gay? to be honest i would keep it to yourself,as most people would find it very strange and a bit freaky....sorry thats my opinion.

Crossdressing

i love dressing up skirts make up it make me feel feminine