Recurrent dreaming of him

Hey
I have quite an embarassing question... That's for about 1 year, almost every night (when I wake up and remember my dreams) I dream about a colleague whom I like very much (we work together and are very efficient)

But I do like him, he's not handsome or gorgeous or anything and everybody hates him because he can be harsh.

This man is so charming and told me I'm his VIP and he likes me so much, we even spent 2 marvellous days in Paris together (for work purpose) but nothing more happened...

another stuff : he's GAY and just got committed... but I like him so much !!!
Why do I keep dreaming of him while I so obviously know he's not for me ? I met his boyfriend and they're both so in love !!!!
I want to forget him and stop feeling stupid every time he talks to me (he even reports me to the boss about being the best employee !)

what do you RECKON ???

Recurrent dreaming of him"

If you know he is gay then you must know that it will never happen between the two of you. Maybe he really enjoys you as a friend gay men tend to have femles friends that they are very close with maybe you are mis- interpreting his friendship and wanting more. But you must know deep down that it won't work out ever.

Of course

yes that's sure, as he's always so kind and nice to me... I completely understand we're only friends (the day he wants that... he's quite a moony guy !)

I think I must have told something wrong, I don't want anything to happen between wonderful pouf and myself, I just wanna forget him !

it happens now because I didn't see him a lot this week... but as soon as I'll have spent 2 hours alone with him on our current files... I know it'll start again, and there's no way I can stop it

Gay

gay will always be a gay..exception is a very lil' chance..it ain't gonna work out sorry to say

Well

The true? U have to forget him,is not gonna work it and u know it.Try to find somebody else and u will forget him....

Hey

I was going to tell you to talk to him or let him know about ur feeling, but unfortunately, he is Gay.

Maybe its time for you to look at him differently, put in ur mind that he is nothing but only a work collegue or a friend, Sure you can do it. I no its not easy but you can do it.

hope this help hun, someone have to open ur eyes in this way that he is not for you. You will find someone else.

Good luck

Thanks

I know I should do that, I already did when he's away from me, I can forget him, but next time he comes and is so sweet and nice and kind with me and the whole stuff starts again ! Can't help it !!!
and I have a boyfriend and he's homophobic, maybe it helps

Ok

I see ur boyfriend is homophobic, And you have a boy friend!!!!!! it should be easy then, just think of ur bf every time you see him, try to picture ur bf and if you love ur bf it should be much easier.

SO you will be ok, usually in this type of situation event if you have sex together it wil be just sex, the best think is ti foccus on ur relationship with ur bf .

Oh sure

no problem about my boyfriend I won't forget him and will never leave him.
I just want that ginger-head tall and slim gay man to LEAVE my dreams alone !