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Please help again guys, you gave such good advice last time

OK, so I've been with a guy nearly 8 weeks now. With a minor hiccup break up in
between (see my previous post on here), and I'm so scared of going any further with him. He ain't pushing me or anything, but I know he's ready to. He's my first boyfriend and I'm scared. I have talked to him about it so much, i really have, and he says he is prepared to wait because he loves me, but I feel like a failure for not wanting to do more already. I really do love him, but I'm also nervous about doing what he wants me to do (hj/bj) because (and I'm being honest here) I don't really know how to! All my mates think I'm making too big of a deal out of it, but I just want to be happy, and him to be happy, and this just ain't working for me! Although I really really do love him, and would be prepared to do what he wants me to do if I really really had to.
mehhhhhhhhhh!!!!
Please help guys,
Thanks,
Much Love xxxxxxxxxx

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"please help again guys, you gave such good advice last time

first of all how old are you.

and if he wants to wait until you, are ready then that is a good thing. I thik you should wait until the time is right for the both of you, belivevme you will know when it is right.

hum... no 1 how old are you + no 2 : do hwat you thinks right... no friend should judge you! + if he loves you and your not ready then he should truely understand... a friend of mine's boif was pressuring her tto have sex so she did and he dumped her the next day cus "she had a skank minge + she was bad in bed"( ) she was 13 (now 14) and it was her 1st time... unless you know your boif and that and if you've been out for long and it feels right then go for it... : xo

don't do anything unless YOU want to. don't let him be the one influencing your desicions. if you don't feel ready then talk to him about it and if he truly loves you then he'll understand. hope the advice helps :/ (:



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