1 step forward 3 steps back? help.

almost a year ago me and this boy started going out we really belived we were in love. we had sooooooo many good times but we also argued a lot over silly things and over the year i've had times when i couldn't trust him and i knew i couldn't because i saw the texts and sttufff. we've broken up a few times but we still loved each other but it always ended badly. we're not together now but i miss him a lot he says he still loves me and wants to get back together but i'm not sure how i feel because i miss him but i know it will just go the same as before! what should i do...?

Hesitant..

goes with the river flows until you get fed up totaly ...at the end of the day you'll get lesson out of it

thanks for the adivce, help tones i'm ow with that guy, and happier than i've bee for a long time! true happieness does exist, so never give up... ,X

I'm a great believer in never going back over old ground - thats my Head Ruling.

If you split up for something silly before then perhaps it could work again. But if you split up because of real problems i.e. trust issues, texts from other girls, arguing a lot etc then surely those problems are going to rear their ugly head sooner or later.

If my Heart is Ruling i would say you dont know until you have tried it again.

It depends how much you were hurt last time. because if it was a lot i wouldnt go back into a relationship with this guy. Sometimes you have got to protect yourself from further hurt.

I hope I have been some help . . . . it's a difficult one.

Good luck

1 step forward 3 steps back? help

I fit is really meant to be then it will happen and you said it yourself if you go back with him will you really be going 3 steps backward. You obviously know within yourself that you are not right for each other because you always break up and get back together. The reason he probably says he still loves you is because, sometimes you feel alone so you think the person that you used to be with you still love them but I think you should really considre it before you get together.