Dont know what to do??!!??

When it comes to friends and family problems i never have a problem with resolving things but with my own life i seem to come unstuck.

Im in a relationship of 3 years and im 19 years old, ive finished college and now have the oppertunitie to start my career on a cruise ship. Im over the moon i got the job but leaving my partner behind is going to be a killer! everyone knows that long distant relationships dont work especially when your away for 6-8months at a time.

Things havent been great between us, he keeps disapearing on lads holidays and is constantly on his phone txting friends and on facebook talking... most people reading this would say dump him... but when your the person in the relationship its hard when you love the person so much... i really dont know what to do anymore? will talking get anywhere? what do i say? cos all ill hear is "you need to trust me" or he doesnt actually listen and gets all defensive saying its all my fault and im making something out of nothing..... am i?


ill really appreciate your replies and i thank you now for taking time to read my post!!!

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"dont know what to do??!!??"

time will tell. If you two are meant to be with each other than it will work out just don't plan anything let things fall in to the natural order.

Dont know what to do??!!??"

Only advice I can say is give it time if you two are meant to be with each other than if you go away, just go as if everything is the same. only time will tell if it will work.

"dont know what to do??!!??""

how have things been going have you decided on what it is you want to do.