Does he want me or not??

Hi Guys really need advice. I have been "seeing" my current partner for 2 years at first on and off but for the past year near enough every day. He practically lives at mine but the problem is that he doesn't want us to be in a serious relationship as he says he doesn't like how he gets all attached in relationships. I have never met his mates, he want call me his girlfriend and I have never met his family. After two years is that weird? He also loves himself something wrotten and always tells me how other girls want him and he could get anybody he wants but he chooses me.

He slept with loads of girls at the beginning of our relationship but says he doesn't now. Also, he hardly makes a move on me these days even though he knows I want it but he masturbates to porn most days! He says he doesn't need to shag all the time as he puts it.

Do you think he just doesn't like me and tagging me along. He says it might develop but at the moment he wants nothing serious!! But he wants a £1000 watch off me for his birthday!!

Please honest advice x

My opinion....

To me there has got to be a reason that you have never met the friends or family, why? Im not sure about you but I even know the family of people I am just friends with so why not my lover of two years...seems fishy to me.

I think that you need a break from him. There are so many other guys out there in this great big world who are looking for a relationship and will not be afraid to hide you away from their life. Dont think it will be easy....it wont. Im not sure if you love him or not as there is no mention of it but if its meant to be between you two then maybe when you explain you need break because he isnt ready maybe it will wake him up and he will realize what hes missing out on....if not his loss. Dont be afaid to be alone, love will find you when you are not looking for it.

Good luck!

Honest advice- dont hope he'll change

Seriously Katy he sounds like is using you. it doesnt sound like he respects you and it is weird after 2 years. you deserve to be a part of his life, i cannot believe you havnt met his friends or family. and if he isnt getting it from you he is probly getting it sumwher else, he did it to you in the beginning and you forgave you so he wil probly do it again. u shudnt b with sum1 who doesnt want to be with you intimately and says how many girls he can get as tho rubbing it in ur face. he wants nothing serious after 2 years??? he just wants a watch and the rest of ur money. it seems he has grown comfortable scrounging off u and not treating you right. u need to take ur independence back and tell him to leave because YOU ARE WORTH MORE. he is not giving you what u need or want and ur questionning whether he wants you so dump the guy, , the right NICE guy will come along eventually but in the mean time be proud to be single, get some YOU time back, go out with ur friends and enjoy urself!!!! XX

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Hi, I'm a guy = P oh wow XD Now, personally, I think you sound like a nice girl, someone who deserves a good guy. This guy, sorry to say, sounds like he's a jerk who's using you. The fact that he won't let youmeet his mates or family may be taht he told them like 'he isn't seeing you', or they may know something about him that he doesn't want you to know. Or maybe he's ashamed of you? Seeing as he's self-obsessed, it's clear that he only believes he needs himself, and so if he COULD sleep with other girls, perhaps he will in the future? I wouldn't trust the idea of keeping him even a mile away from you, seeing as he sounds like he's hiding a lot. The fact taht he won't have sex with you just shows that he's not particularly attracted to you, and that he prefers to see other women? It's clear he still 'wants a shag', due to the fact that his libido is working, seeing as he still 'needs a ... ! He wants a fancy watch, but for what reason? to impress others? to leech your money? Either way, no guy should ask his girlfriend for anything so expensive...there's just no need for it. If he doesn't want a relationship, it shows that he just wants to use you until he actually finds someone else. Or perhaps he has found someone else, but doesn't need the 'hassle' of you breathing down his neck about it? Personally, I hate to say this, but as a guy, it REALLY sounds as if he's not interested in you as a person, he just uses you. Sorry to say. You sound like a really nice person, so I really think you deserve to get to be with a better guy. Sorry.

xx

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Oh, btw, I was gonna say: by the sound of you, he should call you his girlfriend. He should be proud to call you his girlfriend! He doesn't deserve you }

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I get the same vibe maybe he is just using you for his own benefit how do you have a girl and not want to sleep with her but masturbate maybe you should move on or date other people to keep your optiopns open what if nothing develops between you two you would have waisted all that time don't stay exclusive to him date other people.