Help ... need advice

hi

i need some advice as i am confused n my head is all over the place!

ive known this guy 4 a while n things av happened between us bt we both went on to have a relationship with other ppl. he broke up with his gf before i broke up with my bf. we were both single again and things happened again between us.

whilst we have bth been owt in town his mates av said that e loves me n e actually confirmed his feelings to me while drunk e sed that i was the love of his life but e also sed e wasnt ready for anything yet. so i thort nothing more of it coz i wernt ready for anything either.

anyways lately e as got into a relationship with another girl but keeps admiring me wen e sees me owt and keeps on textin me.

the point to my problem is that i do love him but i am feeling a little hurt towards his new relationship. i was just wunderin what other people think about my dilemma and what they would do in my shoes?

thanks

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have you figured out what it is you want to do about the situation that you are in.

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hi

the only thing i have figured out is to jus acknolowdge him when i c him n t jus basically ignore any texts i gt or jus to reply back to them innocently if u gt me. lol. i dnt realy no wat else to do.

"help ... need advice

Just because he tells you that he loves you it doesn't mean you should put your life on the line for him. How can he tell you he is not ready for a relationship and then end up in one. I think it is unfair of him and unfair to you to trust in something that might never happen. I suggest you move on and let him see you with other people enjoying your life and see what happens, and if you do want to have a relationship with him then make him work for it.