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Unfaithfull

I am married with two young boys, I love my husband very much, and he is the only man I have had sex with but over the past few months, I have started wondering what it would feel like to have sex with another man, as one night I went to a party with some girl friends, and I let another man kiss me and feel my breasts, and that was all, except I felt his erection pressing against my leg which felt much larger than my husbands and it aroused me so much that I had to have sex as soon as I got home to my husband. Now after that night I feel that I want to find out what it feels like to have sex with a man who has a larger penis than my husband. I confessed my feeling to my girlfriends, and they have told me to go ahead and do it, if only to satisfy my curiosity, but is it worth the risk.?

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Unfaithful

I am in a similar situation have been with my partner for 18 years have 4 children am only 35 but recently had a brief fling which was very phisical and we also spent a lot of time texting it was with a very close friends husband fourtunatly they live 100 miles away so it would never have been able to develop into anything more than a fling after our last weekend together we decided that too many people could get hurt if they ever found out but i'm left wondering if i should stay in my relationship or find someone who makes me feel alive like this man did or is it just lust .

Unfaithfull

hello lilly
Sometimes it better the devil you know, so maybe for your kids sake, stay with your hubby, and do what I have now decided to do, just have the occassional fling, my hormones are running wild with me at the moment, and the excitment I get when I'm being seduced by another man, is fantastic.
But just make sure you will never be caught out.

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I really dont' think you should go there, especailly if you love your huband.

It isn't

Just think about it: do you really think that this could be worth? I mean all the happiness you surely felt, feel and will feel, the love of your husband and your children only to satisfy a momentary lustful desire? I really don't think so and I'm sure you know it too. Don't waste everything you got like that. Life is hard so every conquer is and there could be no more chance. But having it with your husband, does it satisfy you? If it does, I don't understand why you should try with another man.

Sex and size

i have slept with a few men, not something i am proud of, but although they have been of different sizes i couldn't honestly say that the bigger the penis the better the sex not at all.

I have realised recently that sex is best when you are in a loving relationship with someone that you feel 100 per cent comfortable with and can let yourself go.

i can understand that you are curious as you have been only with your husband but trust me sex is sex, you risk ruining a good relationship to satisfy curiousity its not worth it, i bet if you did have sex with someone else you wouldn't enjoy it as you would feel so guilty, sexual pleasure for women is highly influenced by the way they feel for their partner.

i think you have to identify the underlying issues here, if you and your husband have been having problems try to resolve them, or try to spice u your sex life before you go looking elsewhere, it will all end in tears otherwise.

Unfaithfull"

how have you been doing

Unfaithful

Thank you for your suport and suggestions in the past, along with others.
To be honest I didn't tell the truth with my original question, as I was unsure of the reaction.
When I explained my encounter with that man at the party, In fact I allowed him to go further than first dicribed,
I allowed him to feel my vagina, and it was when I felt his penis between my legs, and he tried to enter me, that stirred my curiosity, Maybe my curiosity would heve been resolved that night had we not been interupted by people passing by.

Still frustrated and curiouse
Tysue

Unfaithfull"

how have things been going, what advice are you going to take I really don't think you should cheat on your husband. I think you should think long and hard about it.

Re:unfaithful

I was in the same situation a few months back. To be honest, nothing else went through my mind for weeks and weeks beforehand - every man I saw I thought was looking at me and wanting me! Eventually, I signed up with Illicit Encounters and had an affair. It was a great experience, and it gave me the courage to end what I now know was an unhappy, unsatisfying marriage.

Good luck with whatever you choose!

Unfaithfull"

first off are your girlfriends married, if not then I wouldn't follow there advice. You are marreid and have never cheated on your husband so why do you wnat to make curiosity get the best of you. I think if you really want to experience a bigger size penis then your husband why not invest in a dildo at least then you won't have the guilt of being a cheater and you can incorporate the use of the dildo in sex with your husband.



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