So confused with how i feel i dont know how i feel anymore...

Ive been in a relationship for 4 years and we have a 7month old baby together, however we now have no sex life and i have no intrest in being close with him, i cring when he kisses me and dont want to be near him. i noticed it just before i fell pregnant and now its so bad, he has said its affecting him us not having a sex life and he misses us being close, but no mater how hard i try i jus am not attracted to him anymore, i tried to leave a few months ago but after a few hours i was back home thinking i made a massive mistake.
but there is no escaping the face i want excitment and romance in my life and i just dont have that anymore.
I so want it to work for my daugthers sake i know how hard it is to grow up with ur parents apart and thats not wot i wanted for her.
I have also found i have feelings for someone else. someone i have known for around 5 years, there has always been a spark but timing was never right as one of us was always in relationship, but we ofter talk and spend hours together if we c each other out. nothing has happened but i feel so much for him now. and i think if i really loved my bf and wanted it 2 work i wouldnt find myself thinking about another man.
I just dont know what to do, i look at couples who enjoy spending time together and i have no intrest in doing anything with him.
I feel so horrible i just dont know what to do.

Please help i need some outside advise....
Thanks
x

So confused

you should examine what made you go back the first time, was it bceause you missed him or because your worried about your security, financially etc? if you missed him and thought you couldn;t be without him then maybe there is still something there worth saving. I know you want the best for your kid but kids will sense if parents dont have love for each other and you dont want to bring them up in that either. life is too short to be unhappy but examine first the real reason before you act irrationally, wat else is going right in the relationship? can you do anythign? do you want to save your relationship? if any answer is yes, go for counsellung, like RElate or maybe even church, tlak to friends, talk to your huisband!
i think you feel guilty because of your daughter but then again you dont want to look bak when your 65 and wish youd done something different, right??

dont warri

yo yo dont warrie lie gos on i know thars a kid now but it dont mean that you hafe 2 go with whats right or rong tha is non of the now do what you think you shod do and he shod respekt you ant gona drag him thro 22 years of regret so go get you man of your dreams and stop thinking of it befor you loos him agen