Need some advice on cheering up ...

me and my boyfriend/ the love of my life just broke up because he has left me for someone that he met over the internet. i used ot see him everyday and everything was going amazingly well, she lives two hours away and apparently although hes been takling to her for over 6 months hes only just realised he has feelings for her. now im alone and very uinhappy. it all came out of the blue he didnt give me any signs on the friday he was going up to see his brother told me i was the one and only, he didnt ever want to be with anyone else and that he was going to buy me a ring while he was away and on sunday evening he comes home and says he loves someone else.... do you think hes made a mistake? du think he'll realise?

we were together for a year and a half and he is a very touchy feely person he needs his physical contact, we had a great vibe and i always made him laugh... i put everything i had ot give into this relationship. I put more than that. and now im angry at him for what he did but i would give anything ion the world to have him back just for a second... everyone who knows me and him rekon hes made a really stupid mistake and that he'll regret it and come back but its been 2 weeks.... what du think will happen?

also yeah.... need some tips on how to cheer up... im not good on a breakup, have managed to avoid thge situation for the last two weeks with alcohol and just flirting with a friend but now its all rushing back... please help me.... this hurts....

thankyou all xxxxxxxxxxx

Break ups

I have been through something similar, we were together a year and half love of my life and we lived 3 hours apart but i was due to move to the same town then, he just woke up one morning ans said he didnt love me anymore without warning!! i called my best mate then my mum, i spent alot of time with friends, i took up loads o new hobbies to keep myself occupied, still cried myself to sleep most nights, but eventually i got over it. it is a healing process with many different stages, for me it goes like this
stage one: devastation
Stage 2: i hate him
Stage3: i don't hate him i love him and want him back
stage4: i think of all the bad things about him/our relationship and realise that i dont need him
Stage 5: i think i don't need any man and that i will end up a lonley old lady with lots of cats!
stage 6: i start to trust men again and get back to normal.

They say that it takes half the length of time you were with a person to get over them, that sounds about right to me.

the other chick is right alcohol is not good i avoided it altogether as it made me feel so much worse, think i drank like twice then realised it was a baaaad idea!! then i went on a health kick, did lots of exercise to keep me occupied and i took up cooking healthy stuff, made me feel good about myself and cheered me up again!

Hope that helps or maybe bring some humour laughing at my craziness!

also, that was a year ago now and i haven't seen him since, i had to move to his town as i had sorted a job there and we were supposed to meet as mates but it never happened, prob a good thing as it would've brought feelings back, its a miracle i haven't bumped into him, but i have since met someone else who is much better for me and i'm happy.

Advice

first you should get rid of the alcohol, it never makes a situation better. I don't think you should sit around worrying if he is going to come to his senses and get back with you. You should try to spend time with your friends, and invest in some good books that you can read to take your mind off of the situation.