heeelllpp.

right, i just broke up with my boyfriend...
i proper loved him
anyone know how to take my mind off it a little...?

Question.

how have you been doing, did yo8u get bacj with your boyfriend or are you still broken up.

i think most of us have been through this, its crap and it will take a while to get over it but you will get over it. last time it happened to me (he just woke up one morning ans said he didnt love me anymore without warning!!) i called my best mate then my mum, i spent alot of time with friends, i took up loads o new hobbies to keep myself occupied, still cried myself to sleep most nights, but eventually i got over it. it is a healing process with many different stages, for me it goes like this
stage one: devastation
Stage 2: i hate him
Stage3: i don't hate him i love him and want him back
stage4: i think of all the bad things about him/our relationship and realise that i dont need him
Stage 5: i think i don't need any man and that i will end up a lonley old lady with lots of cats!
stage 6: i start to trust men again and get back to normal.

They say that it takes half the length of time you were with a person to get over them, that sounds about right to me.

Hope that helps or maybe bring some humour laughing at my craziness!

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spend time with your friends, go to your local library and get some books to read. just try to keep yourself occupied.