What do i do?

well me and my boyfriend have had a lot of problems in the past but he has helped me a lot over the past couple of years. He told me he liked me about 2 and a half years ago but i have depression so my head was all over the place. We finally got together about 4 months ago when i decided to tell him i still had feelings for him. But he has changed he has a lot of mood swings and then he makes out its my fault because i dont show how i feel for him. He knows i find it hard because of my past. Also when we are havin a discussion he raises his voice and i have told him that i dont appreciate it. Also he gets very jealous of me talking to male friends and if i want to go out with my mates instead of stayin in with him he goes mardy with me while we are out. can anyone help me out i dunno what to do???

Sit him down

you need to sit him down and explain that he knew from the start that with you past , that you really do find it difficult to show how you feel......he needs to give you time love and understanding, and your true emotions for him will come...
explain that shouting makes you nervous and it puts you back to not showing the love you have in your heart for him... is he suffering alittle depression aswell???
or has he got troubles on his mind he wants to talk to you about but doesnt know how????
he also needs to understand that time apart makes the heart grow fonder..you had a life before him and so did he ... make him feel spoilt once a week boast his ego alittle once you have had anite out with the girls and he will love you for it...........anything is worth a try..

Agree

you need to sit him down and explain that he knew from the start that with you past , that you really do find it difficult to show how you feel......he needs to give you time love and understanding, and your true emotions for him will come...
explain that shouting makes you nervous and it puts you back to not showing the love you have in your heart for him... is he suffering alittle depression aswell???
or has he got troubles on his mind he wants to talk to you about but doesnt know how????
he also needs to understand that time apart makes the heart grow fonder..you had a life before him and so did he ... make him feel spoilt once a week boast his ego alittle once you have had anite out with the girls and he will love you for it...........anything is worth a try..

i agree with this post. he needs to understand how you feel and that his insecurities make you fell somewhat insecure and vulnerable.