Leaving a double life/denial of sexuality

Hi,

I have been in a brief relationship with a guy and my intuition is telling me he may be leaving in denial.
i am suspecting he is leaving in denial of either being bisexual or gay.
Can anyone give me some advise as to how i can know if someone is leaving in denial?
How do i know if he is gay.I was told that Gay do have signs between them!!! can anyone give me tips!!
He always make negative comments about gay who shows to much of their feminine side.
He did ask me once if he dances like gay.
The guy is in mid forty, can not bothered to commit and be in a relationship.
Are these signs, pls help.

xxthanksxx

Living a double life?

If the guy is in his mid 40's then I would think that he would know what his preference is by now. I think you need to be honest with him and tell him you are concerned, and dont want to commit to this relationship until you know what his feelings are about the future, where the 2 of you are concerned.

He maybe lacking in self confidence about his masculinity, maybe he feels he's not manly enough for you, have you made any comments about fancying butch macho men?!

A bit sneeky but if you could get access to his pc, you could see what porn he likes! or snoop in his bedroom and see what magazines he has!!

When your out and about does he look at other women or men?
Have you talked about what you like / fancy about the opposite sex?

Hope this has given you some ideas.

Why do you suspecting that?

What did he do to make you suppose that he is gay or bisexual? he doesn't want to make love with you or else?