Difficult
Well, when I read this, I was wondering how much attention you paid to him at the start? Playing hard to get or complimenting him less than he does to you may have made him feel like you don't really need him as much as you actually do; he may grow to think he's done his part by actually finally winning the chase and getting you. Perhaps what you experienced at first was one of these 'beginner's flame' things? Where everything was fun and exciting and lovable at the beginning, but now it's toning down a little? Relationships that are simmering down can sometimes appear to be failing. But maybe it's not failing at all. Maybe you just need to invite something new into your life in order to boostthe excitement in one another? Or maybe you need to show him just how great you really are! I dunno how...perhaps have something like an all-night sex thing? Or 'conveniently' remind him of the old times (photos would encourage it) and the things you used to do together and stuff; he probably doesn't realise it's missing because he hasn't lost you. But if he did, he'd realise it then, Relationships do need time and patience and sometimes absence to simmer and this can be one of the hardest times to stay together, cos it'll feel like you're drifting apart. Just stick in there and if you feel lonely, don't wait for him, go all out guns on him with something, just to keep the excitement afloat! I hope that's helped }
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