Advice pleaseee

hey,
well i was going out with this boy for quite a while, and we were sexually active until he blamed me on giving him an STD (which ive been checked out so i knew it wasnt me) anyway it put me of having sex with him so i didnt and then one day i asked him how long i had until he finished me for not having sex with him and he said 3 days and 3 days later he did.
anyway... hes been trying to get me back and ive had none of it and he knows i dont want anything to do with him anyway.
but latly ive been chatting to hid cusin and we both REALLY like eachother but we cant do anything about it because of chris
am i doing something wrong? because i feel like we are both punishing our selves for something that wasnt our fault!!

what can i do?

xxx

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No, you're not doing anything wrong. If you get on with his cousin better than you get on with him (in a relationship sorta way), then that's all there is to it; I mean, would you prefer a relationship in which you and your partner could be happy, or one in which you would always crave for the other man?
Arguments, pointless or vital, happen all the time and it's our actions alone that prove to ourselves as to whether a relationship was worth keeping and both your actions sorta proved it wasn't, perhaps? It's not for me to judge, but outta friendly advice, I'd say go for his cousin if you get on well
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