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i dont no if im to paronoid about to much stuff in my new relationship cos iv been cheeted on n lied to in the past to trust eny1 els . can enyone tell me what to do plzzzzzzzzzzzz x

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what are you paranoid about??
Need a bit of a story before we offer advice?
The past, however, shouldnt effect your future ... but we always let it x

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well sorry for not getting bk to you for a while . but you asked for a bit ov the story well it all started when my ex mate split from her boy freind befor we were mates and she met sum one els then her ex told her he liked me and i told her that i liked him and she tryed 2 get us together but i sed no for a few months cos i didnt want us to fall out . but any way she sed it was ok for us to get together and we did meet up and we got together and then she tred to split us up by saying that he still wants her and stuff like that but 5 months on we are still together but i keep getting paranoid wen she speeks to him cos ov what she was saying shes tryed to get him bk but he 's told me he loves me n wants to marry me and he dont want her bk CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVICE PLZZZZZZ XX

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Sounds like you don't have a problem as such with your boyfriend, you have a problem with your friend. After all she got you both together, you were a good friend and said no but when she said it was ok you allowed a relationship to evolve. I understand it must be a little weird for her to see her ex with someone else, but what she is doing is wrong. You need to talk to your friend and ask her what she is playing at, tell her she is close to losing both you and her ex as friends if she keeps playing these games. What is she trying to prove.
For example I had a friend once who only went after blokes that other people wanted. I remember telling her I'd met a nice bloke and brought him out to meet all my friends, she wouldn't leave him alone and she wouldn't give up until one day she got him. It was like she had to prove she was better than everyone else and that men wanted her more. It's sad cause she goes after married men breaks up their marriage and walks away. She will never be able to settle down and be happy. Cause she always wants what everone else has and when she has it doesn't want it anymore. I stopped being her friend years ago.
Warn your friend of the consequences of her actions. BUt she sounds like no friend at all to me.

Thanks x

i kno wot you meen but its hard cos they got kids together and she has to get involvd but thats not that bad its wen she rings up trtying to have a conversation with him, about anything and he knos it annoys me n i do tell him about it but he say that she just keeps talking away wen he trys to get off the fone and yeah it dose cause argumens about it x