Hi there!

I'm in love with a man who just wants to f..k or something like that, maybe he doesn't want anything at all from me. But once he invited me to dinner and also was quite kind to me and sometimes rude. I had a boyfriend at that time, so I couldn't go out with him without feeling ***. We just met some times and without going out at night.

Now I am a single woman and a lot of guys try to go out with me. There is one who is quite interested (but not so much) but a friend of mine is in love with him since so many years, and now she's started saying bad things about me because of this reason. I'd like to stop going out with this group of friends (with this boy and this girl) because of that, do you think it's unnecessary? I mean, am I worrying too much? I wouldn't like my friend to hate me because I'm making sweet eyes to this guy.
Would you go on going out with them?

Would you see the first guy whom I have invited and then I told him I was too busy and for three times I cancelled the three dates?


Sorry for my English and thank you.

I say

forget the guy whos rude to you, find someone whos nice to you, hes not worth the effort.Leave him. As for your friend, no friend would ever be nasty about you over a guy, so shes not a good friend and you dont need her either. Let her live her life and get the guy if shes wants. You sound like you have plenty of guys who would be interested, just go for someone who likes you and is nice to you and leave negative relationships behind.