Facebook issue

Hey

Just wanted some advice,

I have been with my bloke for about 2 months & seeing him for about 6 months - I have posted on here before about his female friend that is in love with him...
basically he has told her about me and she now knows who I am (we dont live near each other) about 3 weeks ago I requested to be in a relationship with him on facebook - and he hasnt accepted - his reasons are he doesnt want to rub salt in the wound YET as she is very emotional blah blah... however I feel if she knows who I am & knows we are together - whats the problem?
Usually I wouldnt be bothered about such small things - but its kind of become an issue
I dont understand why he wont accept the request on facebook - makes me think is he trying to graft other girls on line & doesnt want it to be known he is publicly in a relationship -I have even said to him I will cancel the request & he told me not to cos he will accept it ...SOON.
I just feel a bit of a mug
Help

guna be honest when i read this i didnt like!
theres no big deal ur right! you need to put it to him- ask him if hes hiding something because he wont accept it? if i were you i would be warey trusting this guy...it sounds like he wants best of both world and probably scared if he accepts it- the girls online wont 'go there' ?? just a thought!! and plus- the fact hes spoken about this female friend worries me, as we all probably have people who fancy, love or whatever us, but it shouldnt mean anything to him, unless he feels the same back!
u tell me girl!

Thanks Emmalouise
I will just see what fate throws my way
Thanks for taking the time xx

Thanks

Thanks for your advise ladies
I have not spoken to him for three days as he was rude to me when i spoke to him... he basically said I think its all about me bla bla bla...
I probably forgot to mention in the first part of this that since we have been together he has not treated me to anything - i am not materialistic in the slightest - but not even a gesture of anything - i put my hand in my pocket all the time and he seems to be a bit of a scrounger - he is 8 years older than me and doesnt seem to have a grasp of reality - he has been to uni and "seems" quite intelligent - but doesnt have a job or anything - he likes to judge people and never seems to be wrong and can never see things from anyone elses point of view... I think its fair to say our short time together has been spent...
I feel stupid as I am usually very indipendant - i have my own place, a good job, do things for myself - i am also very guarded and do not let my barriers down easily - I let my guard down with him and have now been hurt again... as far as I am concered (as out my friends) he is trying to keep his options open with this female "friend" also a few of my mates think he is living a double life as I have not even been to his place (he lives an hour or so away)
I think I am probably best of out of it to be honest

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tbh, i wouldnt worry about it.
i can see wher your coming from about this friend of his, but she is a friend and she will mean something to him and he might just want to leave it a little bit. Just put yourself in his position if one of your male friends loved you. see if you can see where he's coming from.
i dont think he'l be trying to get other girls, he just may feel it best to leave it a littl bit longer.
leave it a few more days then mention your concerns to him.