Respect

Hi, please can someone help me with this? If I dont want sex or dont want b/f to come round but he does anyway I feel that he is not respecting me or my wishes. When I tell him that he says that I am not respecting HIS wishes or I would let him.

I suppose he has a point but I feel a bit bullied at times

How can I counter his argument?

Thanks so much

If he has sex with you - thats called RAPE sweetheart!!
If you dont wat to see him, thats your choice... sounds as if he is completely selfish and doesnt respect your wishes... There is also clearly no reasoning with him
Ask yourself is this how you want it to carry on??