had this weird appfinay urgent!!!!!!!!!!

Basically.............. a year ago or so broke up with the man i truley love, all because of my friends, they hated him cus he's one of the flirty types, but to my knolege i honestly don't think he has cheated.... It got completly out of control with the friends though! now, 8 months on i still have strong feelings for him and we kept on kissing me months after we broke up. and used to do the sweetest things... now he on drugs such as mushrooms cocaine and weed and he's moved away to a place 3 hours away, this week we reminised about the good times, and he told me he loved me and i told him i still love him. and we spoke for 4 hours on the phone... just like old times.he still remembers our first kiss, the date we went out and he has a whole diary about me:S poems etc. he was saying he can't get to sleep cus now he has butterflys. old friend s of his that i'm friends with thinks i could get him sored cus he knows i hate him getting involved with drugs:/ i love him and it took so much to get over him and he's saying all this stuff and now he's not replying to texts and stuff. but he's coming down to where i live on saturday (tomorrow) and we're gunna meet. and if he does try to make a move, he + i know that i won't be able to resist.. so was he bored, afraid or still in love ? why did he say all that stuff? urrrgh HELP!

Move on.

I hate to break up the whole "romeo & Juliet" theme you have going but the bottom line is; the guy is a deadbeat. He was your first love and nothing more. The reality is he is now a junkie; which means he never knows what he is actually saying, let alone cares about what the after math of such 'revelations' could be.

Fast forward five years; where will he be? Most likely in an alley somewhere with a needle sticking out of his arm, he is a lost case, babe. Move on before you join him.

This is plain unhealthy and I hate to say it, but you need to get a life pronto, and by no means am I being disrespectful, I just mean that If you keep looking back all the time, how can you possibly move forward and meet mr. right when you are hung up on mr. wrong. You sound like you are fixating on the past. That is just what it is; THE PAST.

Once upon a time, he may have been decent. He is NOW a drug user. Bad NEWS.

Secondly; what are you complaining about your friends for? They said he was bad news; the proof being is now a junkie. Hello?!?!?!?!?!?! They are your friends for a reason; they look out for you, they protect you, they love you and when you are preoccupied spinning in a circle that they call "love" they are there to catch you before you fall.

Move on. He WILL wreck your life and destroy you as a person.

Hmm

Well, is there any reason as to why you split other than your friends? I mean...does he have a history of cheating or using? Sometimes flirty people aren't always cheaters, they just try to make the most outta life. Has he cheated on you before, from what you know of?
Usually cheaters don't go back to the person they cheated on; why would they, when they can cheat with other girls and get away with it? Try not to believe rumours without any substantial and reliable evidence to prove it.
I think you should give him another chance. But tell him to quit the drugs first. If he loves you, he'd give up his left arm for you, so drugs wouldn't be outta the question. Let him prove to you he loves you. And if your friends start again...hell, it's your love-life, not their's, so they shouldn't interfere until they're needed.
Good luck with it }
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