!st date in 30 years or possibility of?

Over to you ladies and gents, this weekend I have to make a phone call and suggest a date?

1.Where should I take her
2.What should I say in the date enquiry?

In general help me out here. We spoke last night and it kinda went OK.

I therefore require a shed load of advise this week from you all!!!!!!!!!!!

Best suggestion will get an Xmas Card and maybe an oppertunity to run away with me - not from me!

Take a deep breath

Firstly; take a deep breath and relax!

Secondly, in terms of date location I would suggest drinks & then dinner, that way if you don't feel a 'spark' then you can leave after drinks without feeling too guilty. If it goes well then suggest a movie - if the time isn't too late and you can budget it in - as I don't know how your finances are.

In terms of asking..simply suggest " Would you like to go for drinks on........such date & time & venue.

Then suggest meeting her there as to avoid too much confrontation and awkward driving there chat - and most importantly of all - arrive 10 minutes prior to the date time and don't be too surprised to wind up waiting up to 15 minutes for her to show - as we are always running late!

In terms of chat; share common interests...food,tv,movies,mus ic,entertainment,sports,xmas plans etc

As you'll be nervous I'd suggest a 'tipple' before you arrive to calm your pre-date jitters.

And most importantly of all; be yourself.